Get it off your chest.

[crudus]

I saw this amazing pair of legs at the public library today. I'm not sure if this is a big deal to me or not. Am I a lesbian?

You are not homosexual if you admit someone of the same gender looks good

Spoiler: pretty

Spoiler: hot

Spoiler: damn fine

I am pretty sure it is more being sexually/emotionally attracted to the same gender. I honestly can't speak too much about the topic since I am straight and have never been gay nor have the desire.

 

[gostchiken]

Racism is not the sole domain of the white community.

 

[Paksenarrion]

I saw this amazing pair of legs at the public library today. I'm not sure if this is a big deal to me or not. Am I a lesbian?

Only if you got aroused, I suppose. Nothing too strange about admiring the features of the same sex.

I wanted to touch them. Maybe it's envy. I'm not that tall, and she had these amazingly long, smooth legs. I had to force myself not to look, but I kept trying to peek at them. Ended up borrowing an opera DVD.

 

[Sgt Doom]

I hate everyone because I envy them. I'm so socially inept that no one likes me. If I wasn't such a nice guy raised with good morals I would have been a clock-tower killing spree shooter.

Pretty much this, except replace last sentence with "If I wasn't so afraid of the potential pain from such an attempt, i'd kill myself."

 

[grimsprice]

I saw this amazing pair of legs at the public library today. I'm not sure if this is a big deal to me or not. Am I a lesbian?

Nah, every girl is a little lez, its totally fine to enjoy natures stunningly sensual symphonies. Because women are actually beautiful. Liking men is an unfortunate byproduct of being a woman, or gay.

 

[Daniel Lubszczyk]

To the guy who was asking Headshotcatcher if he's ever been miserable:

I've been and I can only totally agree with him.
but I got out of it..
AND NOW ITS TEIM2RAEG.

I'm going on a date on Tuesday, with a chick I met over the internet and phoned with her all the time and the problem is that on the one side she seems to be in love with me and on the other side she seems to just be friends and.. Women are confusing.

After long thinking this is seriously everything I could think of :X
I'm actually used to many many more problems, I've tried to killmyself, depressions.. meh.
To all you guys who have actual real problems:
Talk.
Talk a lot with friends about it talk a lot with your family about it, just talk with someone you trust and you know of, that the person will listen to you and give you advice.
That helped me.
And it was mostly people over the internet I got to know over playing TF2 who helped me, I just had to do some work alone and..

Heads up folks!
Everything will work out.

 

[theironbat46]

I saw this amazing pair of legs at the public library today. I'm not sure if this is a big deal to me or not. Am I a lesbian?

I wouldn't worry about it. [Then again I'm a straight guy] if you were just like, "Woah" then It wouldn't be much. However, if you were frequently checking it out, looking like you found a prized diamond, I would think about where I stand sexually for a minute.

 

[headshotcatcher]

Damn you life, and damn my inability to get a girlfriend. Why is there something wrong with me, why must every girl I live near either be in a relationship or be a complete and total ****. Why do they all have higher standards than they realistically should. I mean I'm no stud, but I'm not bad looking.

And fuck you life for making me depressed about shit like this.

I don't know where to start.. But I'll try!
You act like you think you are the only one with these problems, just one glance on this (or any other) forum or even just this topic will show you you are not..
But anyway, you seem to view getting a girlfriend like a big end goal, but also like something that shouldn't be hard, do you see the irony in that?

Thinking about that 'why is everyone near me in a relationship a ****' is just the fruit of you being depressed(ish), the last line just confirms this and makes it worse as well. Depression is a choice, a bad one as well. You choose to be unhappy, it's up to you to revoke that choice and get a positive outlook on life!

 

[Yureina]

I'm coming to resent someone lately who, for all of their positive traits, has increasingly been bothering me over the discrepancy between what this person says and what they do. I may be an evasive and shady person, but I really don't like it when people just can't tell me they have a problem directly and keep up a passive-aggressive game. Maybe i'm just reading into things too much, but it looks like i'm going to have to throw this person out a proverbial window and no longer waste my time with them.

 

[Darth_Dude]

I have a friend in the hospital with a failing liver. My blood type matches, so if i volunteer i MIGHT have a chance of going under the knife. But it means putting my life on hold for 3 months or so, which means i will be set back a semester of my studies......I want to help, but theres a bit of me screaming "what about uni!!" Not to mention my family and all..The hardest decision i have to make in my life so far....

If you really care about your friend, the ndo it. If your school life is more important than him/her then......

And i'm sure your family will agree with your choice.

 

[TimeLord]

Ooooh convenient.

Spoiler

You know what, Kayleigh? You know I still like you and you go parading around your bf who is 6 years older than you as if he is some kind of god. Well fucking hell that makes me angry.
Oh and you work can go fall into a deep hole for the amount that they have helped me over the past 3 years. I could have stayed at home picking my nose and I would have got further in my life!

And who is this River Song person? Go jump into a sun!

 

[Treeinthewoods]

J -

Dude you are one of my best friends but you are a constant source of stress. You know you have a criminal record, you were in prison for five years before I met you but for some reason you won't quit drinking. You know that when you drink you get violent and I end up having to work interference so you don't get a) beat up and b) sent back to prison.

Also, you can't keep a job because of your bad attitude with anybody but your closest friends which alienates people. It was hard enough to get a job with a record much less three and you just got yourself fired because again because you can't stop the mouth. If you treated other people the way you treat me you might not have to call me drunk and sobbing because you are failing at providing for your wife.

AND SO HELP ME GOD IF YOU EVER TALK TO ME ABOUT JUMPING OFF A PARKING GARAGE OR ANYTHING THAT STUPID AGAIN I SWEAR I WILL TELL YOUR WIFE NO MATTER WHAT YOU MAKE ME PROMISE. I WILL DRIVE YOUR ASS HOME LIKE I ALWAYS DO AND I WILL TELL HER.

Wow, that actually worked well. I feel better... thanks OP.

 

[theironbat46]

Ohh I'm loving this post.
Okay, two thinks I need to get off my chest:
1. I am in a long term relationship with my boyfriend but I am seriously attracted to one of my friends. Who's a girl. So I guess I'm bisexual, and I'm fine with that, but if I say anything like that to any of my girl mates I think I would weird them out...Jeezz I don't like not being able to talk about it...

2. I HATE WRITING ESSAYS!! WHY DON'T TEACHERS KNOW WHAT THEY WANT?? AND WHAT'S EVEN THE POINT OF ALL THESE TESTS AND STUFF? Especially the these AST things, this is so stupid?? What if english isn't your first language? And what if you don't take english?? YOU TEST ON NOTHING YOU BASTARDS!!!

Ok, I'm done.

Follow your heart,but follow slowly and with thought. And I know essay hell. Had to wright 5 pages a week. Doesn't sound like much, but I can't pop out an I idea 24/7. My mind doesn't work that way Mrs.Wicks. And I hate your novel in progress. It sounds stupid. And you giggle every five seconds. I may have not been the one to wright that stuff on your board, but you had it coming,

 

[qazmatoz]

I saw this amazing pair of legs at the public library today. I'm not sure if this is a big deal to me or not. Am I a lesbian?

Nah, every girl is a little lez, its totally fine to enjoy natures stunningly sensual symphonies. Because women are actually beautiful. Liking men is an unfortunate byproduct of being a woman, or gay.

Hey there are some beautiful men out there who I'd just love to pounce on. Oh wait, I'm supposed to be straight. Ah well, I guess I just learned something about myself.

 

[automatron]

I'm not going to find love anytime soon, and because of it school doesn't seem worth it anymore

 

[Cowabungaa]

Sam, I love you, but you know as well as I that we'll never be able to be together like this, not even as friends. I have no hope left whatsoever, I'm willing to do everything for you yet even a small thing I ask of you is apparently too much. I'm not angry at you, I couldn't be, I understand but I just hoped that I was worth a bit more to you. Apparently my hope was misplaced, this is not your fault so I'm not angry at you or anything. It's just another case of bad luck.

And really, right now I just want to die. That girl was the only thing I really cared about and as it's looking up now there's no hope left that I will ever actually see her or even properly talk to her. And don't give me that shit of "ohhhh it's just a broken heart" and "ohhhh there's plenty of fish in the sea" because no, in both occasions this is simply not true and no-one else can ever know this. I'm just tired of fighting for even the small, simple things I really want and never ever getting them no matter how hard I try. I'm out of energy, burned up, empty.

I'm not even sure I'm depressed, I used to think I was but right now I just feel tired. I'd like to try to make something off my life as I've tried before, but there's just nothing left to try. I lost everything I cared about, I just don't know what to do.

Depression is a choice, a bad one as well. You choose to be unhappy, it's up to you to revoke that choice and get a positive outlook on life!

You have no idea how wrong this is. Clinical depression is a distortion in the chemical processes in someone's brain. It's not simply a choice.

 

[HardkorSB]

I kissed a girl and I liked it... but I'm a guy so I guess that's not a problem.

 

[headshotcatcher]

Depression is a choice, a bad one as well. You choose to be unhappy, it's up to you to revoke that choice and get a positive outlook on life!

You have no idea how wrong this is. Clinical depression is a distortion in the chemical processes in someone's brain. It's not simply a choice.

Stress causes a distortion in someone's brain, does that also mean stress is a factor you can't control? >.>

 

[RatRace123]

Damn you life, and damn my inability to get a girlfriend. Why is there something wrong with me, why must every girl I live near either be in a relationship or be a complete and total ****. Why do they all have higher standards than they realistically should. I mean I'm no stud, but I'm not bad looking.

And fuck you life for making me depressed about shit like this.

I don't know where to start.. But I'll try!
You act like you think you are the only one with these problems, just one glance on this (or any other) forum or even just this topic will show you you are not..
But anyway, you seem to view getting a girlfriend like a big end goal, but also like something that shouldn't be hard, do you see the irony in that?

Thinking about that 'why is everyone near me in a relationship a ****' is just the fruit of you being depressed(ish), the last line just confirms this and makes it worse as well. Depression is a choice, a bad one as well. You choose to be unhappy, it's up to you to revoke that choice and get a positive outlook on life!

Perhaps, though I was just venting about stuff that made me depressed, not stuff that is currently making me depressed. I'm pretty mellow at the moment, the only thing really bothering me is the heat. But more to the point, you are right, somewhat. Though what I said was not entirely untrue, I live in a fairly, um... elitist town. We have a seperation between high class and middle class (It's sort of like the harvard runoffs, living in New England, this isn't unexpected.) So, I am surrounded by some entitled bitchy shallow stereotypes. That's not an exageration either, it's like Jersey Shore sometimes... or it was, I'm out of grade school now. But I guess I still hold some bitterness about the whole thing.

 

[Mr. Mike]

Damn you life, and damn my inability to get a girlfriend. Why is there something wrong with me, why must every girl I live near either be in a relationship or be a complete and total ****. Why do they all have higher standards than they realistically should. I mean I'm no stud, but I'm not bad looking.

And fuck you life for making me depressed about shit like this.

Dude, the one girl I feel like I might love lives on the other side of the world. She was over here (Australia) for a bit, and left just today. Saying goodbye was the hardest thing ever. Girls do horrible things to us.