It's actually a very reasonable argument. I laid out the facts, the history, and the reasoning in a perfectly rational manner.
You responded with no real counter-argument. Despite repeating the phrase "the fact is", without following it up with any cogent facts or argument, you proceeded straight to attacking me (which is called 'ad hominem' - your first logical fallacy, of many) and not backing up your argument with anything but ill-founded opinion. My argument remains sound and untouched by anything you've written. Calling me a white-guilt apologist, amongst other names, (ad hominem) doesn't make my reasoning any less so. You haven't argued your case with any rationality or reason.
Sorry, but that was a very poor excuse for a post you made. Whatever argument you had amongst your embittered rambling, if any, was very weak--so weak I didn't spot it. And I'm a highly educated person, who you know nothing about. I won't thank you for the strawman you created (second logical fallacy) and then drooled your meaningless diatribe at.
Now, being the rational person that I am, let me pick apart some of the things you said. Basically, let me tell you why you're wrong about a lot of things, and how your preconceived notions around race have blinkered you into a problematic mindset, namely:
you clearly have a chip on your shoulder about black people. Even when your language is being called out as racist, it emboldens you to use it more, simply because you (incorrectly) judge the person/people you're "arguing" with (if you can call it that) to have certain political leanings (strawman fallacy again). It's pretty pathetic stuff, but never mind. Here goes:
Jiub said:
The fact is, that both terms are exactly the same, and the use of the word "of" doesn't change anything.
I've explained why the terms are different. I've given the history around the usage of each term--using real facts! Evidence! I can support everything I said with backed-up historical data! When I say "the fact is..." I can follow it with something using empirical data. You, it appears, can't. (third logical fallacy: irrational anecdotalism) So in this regard, you're wrong.
Jiub said:
They act like they hate that word so much, yet somehow if you listen to any rap album made by a black person, you'll hear the word about 800 times.
You're guilty of another logical fallacy here: you're giving false equivalence. "Black people hate X, but black-people-music condones it". You're equating a perceived preference of an entire race (another logical fallacy: racial homogenization) with a culture you attribute to them (again, another fallacy). Has it occurred to you that not all black people wish to be represented by the content of rap lyrics? I'd be mortified if I was a white American, because then people will assume I'm some sort of inbred hick after listening to country music for five minutes. "Whites act like they hate incest so much, yet somehow if you listen to any country music album made by a white person, you'll hear "mah cousin" about 800 times." See? False equivalence. Assuming that rap music speaks for all black people is again very problematic, and it's attitudes like this that's at the very root of racism (rap has been historically counter-cultural to white establishment, which is why it's so provocative in its content, but that's a wider argument to be had elsewhere, at another time).
Jiub said:
The fact is that colored people have never had things better for them
I mean...
wow. There's straight up racism right there.
Yes, massa, dey bin good servants ain't dey? Now dey should be grateful
for de oppo-tunity that dem white folk gave em, massa!
But no, you're right. They should be eternally grateful to the white man for being so beneficent to allow them to continue living as if they were real people. (I've moved past naming all the argumentative sins you've committed, as we've reached 'dangerous disgruntled rambling territory' here)
Jiub said:
they are always first in line for every social benefit and entitlement, first in line for any college they want
If you're going to spout off this sort of racist drivel, you could at least back it up with evidence. Show me one statistic--one!--that gives your point any credence. Anything will do. In any case, I doubt you'd ever come to this conclusion without backing up your beliefs with any sort of credible source, would you? So I was wondering if you'd share your sources with the group.
Jiub said:
the colored people are not asking for equality anymore; they're openly advocating racist black supremacy
I mean like... damn. This began with "these people wish to be called people of color", and "it's basic common decency", but now it's about... black supremacism? I get the faint whiff of projection here. I mean, your polemic was tawdry racist twaddle, to grandpa-on-the-porch-with-a-shotgun-on-his-lap levels, to begin with. But it crescendoed here.
Steve the Pocket said:
we should totally be listening to the definitely-not-racist person who still says "colored people" like it's the fucking 1950s. Still butthurt that you have to use the same restroom as them, eh buddy?
I think we've long since proved that he is!