Alright, since my freshman year of highschool I've met this AMAZING girl. She's pretty, funny, good, a little crazy, is a geek, listens to all my shit, is really caring, and is just someone who makes me happy just to be around. The problem is is that she is dating her middle school crush and they are still together. But whenever I see them together, he just...cuddles and all this other weird stuff with her, I haven't seen them have a real conversation. Ingles she's happy but I'd give anything to be with her. Right now it feels like her boyfriend is Charles Darnay, my crush is Lucy Manette, and I'm the broken Sydney Carton. I have only one trait in common with Sydney, and that's to make sure my Lucie is always happy. I'd like to be happy with her. Any advice?
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Leave it be. If you intervene, you will lose one way or another.
She'll either hate you for trying to break up her relationship, which you KNOW she's happy with, or she'll sympathize, but be unable to deal with you as a friend, like before.
It's just a bad idea. Wait it out or move on. I'd suggest moving on.
She'll either hate you for trying to break up her relationship, which you KNOW she's happy with, or she'll sympathize, but be unable to deal with you as a friend, like before.
It's just a bad idea. Wait it out or move on. I'd suggest moving on.
First off, mad props for the tale of two cities reference. I know chicks that dig lit buffs.
Secondly, I'm afraid Theory's right. You'll likely end up causing more harm than good attempting to split them. If you're particularly patient, she MIGHT find something that makes her break up with him. You'll want to wait to ask her out, because a rebound doesn't help anyone.
Also, it sounds like you're still pretty early on in high school. Couples join and break up at the drop of a hat at that age. You'll find someone else to fall in love with, I'm sure of it. That or she'll come to you eventually.
Either way, best of luck to ya.
Secondly, I'm afraid Theory's right. You'll likely end up causing more harm than good attempting to split them. If you're particularly patient, she MIGHT find something that makes her break up with him. You'll want to wait to ask her out, because a rebound doesn't help anyone.
Also, it sounds like you're still pretty early on in high school. Couples join and break up at the drop of a hat at that age. You'll find someone else to fall in love with, I'm sure of it. That or she'll come to you eventually.
Either way, best of luck to ya.
Don't be Carton, or else your gonna live with a broken heart, which is probably the same thing Carton endured after lucy realized any man would want her and decided social standing didn't mean shit to her now why not then. Carton may have had her by the end of the book doesn't mean its "real".
You're having girl troubles? I feel bad for you, son.
If you've got $99 dollars, you should buy something fun.
Like a new game.
If you've got $99 dollars, you should buy something fun.
Like a new game.
Leave it. Trust me, there was a friend I came very close to beating the crap out of because he fell in love with my then-girlfriend and upset her. Stay out of it, because you will most likely hurt this girl and get yourself hurt in the process.
Deal with it; find somebody else. Pining after somebody who's in a happy relationship is an exercise in pointlessness and bad manners.
Deal with it; find somebody else. Pining after somebody who's in a happy relationship is an exercise in pointlessness and bad manners.
Just be nice to her and be dashing. But don't really get involved. So basically, if they do break up, the door is open, but if you did actually cause them to break up directly then that would be a massive dick move (that probably wouldn't work). I guess the best thing to do would be to find someone else, but that's easier said than done.
Seduce with romantic dinner or whatever.
Share a fandom? Take something from that.
Too bad Valentine just passed
Share a fandom? Take something from that.
Too bad Valentine just passed
I think I can understand how you decribed their relationship and it doesn't seem like the typical kind you'd want to intentionally avoid breaking up. Making subtle moves that might break them up could work if you get them to think that they don't particularly care for each other anymore and that they are only in a relationship because there is no conflict while there is no driving force. If this doesn't work than LEAVE IT COMPLETELY and never consider going back. It's unlikely to work out well for you. If you are subtle than it's also unlikely they will hate you for it because the chances are they probably won't even notice. They seem to have had a good run anyway and one of them is probably ready to move on.
Stay out of it. Not your relationship = not your business. It's up to her who she dates, not you. Keep one eye on the situation just in case they break up, in the meantime pursue other options because this option isn't actually an option at all.Hectix777 said: