As we speak my girlfriend is having a panic attack caused by her abusive mother. Mental, physical, emotional, her family covers all the bases when it comes to making her life miserable.
She is 18 and in high school, I am 19 and in college with my own apartment. I've begged and pleaded with her to come live with me here as soon as possible or as soon as she finishes school, but she says she can't because her mom and step dad refuse to pay for any of her college unless she keeps living with them.
Her mother is mentally unstable due to her medical history and her step father acts like an abusive dictator over the house. It's a ridiculously cliche situation but nonetheless true.
I can't very well confront either of them without stirring up a veritable shit storm, definitely leading to more abuse. I tried telling her that she could make it through college by getting a job and financial aid and that I'd even help her pay too, but she won't budge and refuses to let me do anything.
So basically what should I do? What can I do? I'm at a loss and any advice would be much appreciated.
She is 18 and in high school, I am 19 and in college with my own apartment. I've begged and pleaded with her to come live with me here as soon as possible or as soon as she finishes school, but she says she can't because her mom and step dad refuse to pay for any of her college unless she keeps living with them.
Her mother is mentally unstable due to her medical history and her step father acts like an abusive dictator over the house. It's a ridiculously cliche situation but nonetheless true.
I can't very well confront either of them without stirring up a veritable shit storm, definitely leading to more abuse. I tried telling her that she could make it through college by getting a job and financial aid and that I'd even help her pay too, but she won't budge and refuses to let me do anything.
So basically what should I do? What can I do? I'm at a loss and any advice would be much appreciated.