Right. This is where I sound a bit shallow, but hear me out here.
I firmly believe that you can tell someones personality just by looking at their hair. It's something I've done quite conscienciously since I first joined secondary school, that's an age of 12 when people start to sort of express themselves. It's hard to come up with these when you haven't got a person in front of you, it's what you'd call a reflex I suppose. I'll give it a shot though. It's also a lot easier to do this with girls but it's also easy to be very insulting if you go down that road. I don't want to start accidentally calling people whores or whatever. I probably will on purpose though.
Let's start at secondary school then. Back then I was a bit of a mixed bag. I was very academic but I also played a lot of sport so I was friendly with the more popular people as well as the smarter bunch. But the first time you walk into your tutor group, you don't know anyone by personality so you want to start safe. You'll sit next to someone with short, clean hair. Kind of messy but well maintained. The kind of person you'd feel at ease around. You're picking a football team? Pick someone with longish hair, not particularly styled though. The ones with styled hair would typically be total arses. You get the general idea.
But I've taken this idea I had ages and I've run with it throughout my teen years. Dating is an interesting one. You want to date someone who takes care in their appearance, but isn't vain. You can see all this in how they treat their hair and how they style it. Girls with dyed hair are almost always more outgoing, as are girls with over-styled hair. Over-styled in my opinion, obviously. This is going to sound silly, but I'd say I've had 3 proper relationships right (ie courtship)? Two of them had hair like I said and those relationships went well. The other one had nits. I found this out after 2 weeks and it was like... if she didn't respect herself to stop insects growing in her hair, then how can I expect her respect me. It transpired that she had lied a lot in the time I'd known her, and I ended it. Does that make me a bad person?
I don't know. Saying it makes it sound like I'm a shallow person. I'm really not, it's just the way I weigh up people on first glance. I still get to know people, but my initials thoughts of "I don't think I'll get along with him/her" are almost always right. I've been doing this for like 10 years or so... does anyone else do this or am I a collosal barsteward?
I firmly believe that you can tell someones personality just by looking at their hair. It's something I've done quite conscienciously since I first joined secondary school, that's an age of 12 when people start to sort of express themselves. It's hard to come up with these when you haven't got a person in front of you, it's what you'd call a reflex I suppose. I'll give it a shot though. It's also a lot easier to do this with girls but it's also easy to be very insulting if you go down that road. I don't want to start accidentally calling people whores or whatever. I probably will on purpose though.
Let's start at secondary school then. Back then I was a bit of a mixed bag. I was very academic but I also played a lot of sport so I was friendly with the more popular people as well as the smarter bunch. But the first time you walk into your tutor group, you don't know anyone by personality so you want to start safe. You'll sit next to someone with short, clean hair. Kind of messy but well maintained. The kind of person you'd feel at ease around. You're picking a football team? Pick someone with longish hair, not particularly styled though. The ones with styled hair would typically be total arses. You get the general idea.
But I've taken this idea I had ages and I've run with it throughout my teen years. Dating is an interesting one. You want to date someone who takes care in their appearance, but isn't vain. You can see all this in how they treat their hair and how they style it. Girls with dyed hair are almost always more outgoing, as are girls with over-styled hair. Over-styled in my opinion, obviously. This is going to sound silly, but I'd say I've had 3 proper relationships right (ie courtship)? Two of them had hair like I said and those relationships went well. The other one had nits. I found this out after 2 weeks and it was like... if she didn't respect herself to stop insects growing in her hair, then how can I expect her respect me. It transpired that she had lied a lot in the time I'd known her, and I ended it. Does that make me a bad person?
I don't know. Saying it makes it sound like I'm a shallow person. I'm really not, it's just the way I weigh up people on first glance. I still get to know people, but my initials thoughts of "I don't think I'll get along with him/her" are almost always right. I've been doing this for like 10 years or so... does anyone else do this or am I a collosal barsteward?
