Frankly, I believe that anyone who claims to be having fun more than half the time hasn't given the question much thought or is outright lying.
Sorry, but I have to completely disagree with you on this point. If I'm not having fun, I stop playing. (When I'm playing "off duty," so to speak, and not for work.) I've turned down the difficulty level more than once so that I can simply enjoy myself without having to work at it so much. (Mass Effect, I'm looking at you. Your combat was...let's just say not good.)
If I can't adjust the game to fix whatever's making it not fun for me, I simply stop playing and move on to the next title. There are too many games out there to waste time bothering with something you're not enjoying.
Sorry, but I have to completely disagree with you on this point. If I'm not having fun, I stop playing. (When I'm playing "off duty," so to speak, and not for work.) I've turned down the difficulty level more than once so that I can simply enjoy myself without having to work at it so much. (Mass Effect, I'm looking at you. Your combat was...let's just say not good.)
If I can't adjust the game to fix whatever's making it not fun for me, I simply stop playing and move on to the next title. There are too many games out there to waste time bothering with something you're not enjoying.