I don't really know what inspired me to make this topic at this moment, but regardless I have a question my fellow escapists:
Do you think murder or suicide is harder to bear, in terms of those who were close to the deceased party?
First off, I've never known anyone who's been murdered, but I was close to a girl who committed suicide during my Sophmore year of high school. We were close friends, and I had a big crush on her, but never bothered to ask her out.
When I found out, first I was confused. Then I questioned if I could do anything to bring her back. I made bargains with higher orders to bring her back, regardless of the cost, and I even got to the point where I felt helpless, like everything was my fault, and that I should just go die.
Obviously I didn't die, but it took months before I even began to recover from the incident. It took about two years before I had any real closure and was able to move on.
There's my little anecdote. Do any of you have any tragedies you wish to spill out, or even if you haven't, how do you think you'd respond if someone close to you was recently deceased outside of natural causes?
And which of the two do you think would be more difficult to bear?
Do you think murder or suicide is harder to bear, in terms of those who were close to the deceased party?
First off, I've never known anyone who's been murdered, but I was close to a girl who committed suicide during my Sophmore year of high school. We were close friends, and I had a big crush on her, but never bothered to ask her out.
When I found out, first I was confused. Then I questioned if I could do anything to bring her back. I made bargains with higher orders to bring her back, regardless of the cost, and I even got to the point where I felt helpless, like everything was my fault, and that I should just go die.
Obviously I didn't die, but it took months before I even began to recover from the incident. It took about two years before I had any real closure and was able to move on.
There's my little anecdote. Do any of you have any tragedies you wish to spill out, or even if you haven't, how do you think you'd respond if someone close to you was recently deceased outside of natural causes?
And which of the two do you think would be more difficult to bear?