Has anyone completely destroyed your trust?
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Yes I many years ago I was introduced to this girl I met through a friend from school. She was pretty interesting of a character and introduced me to my first boyfriend.
How ever our time as friends did not last because after we started fighting (over money and items she borrowed and had not paid/brought back) I found her in my home on my computer printing stuff out. My mother was the one who let her in to help clean to pay off the loan but was not watching her. The girl actually lied to my mother on the phone when my mother called her later and asked if she had been there.
You know how she got caught she didn't clean out the Internet history on my computer and I showed not just that but the amount of ink she used to my mom.
Later on I also found out that she was sleeping with my boyfriend while I was dating him. I never slept with him myself because he was practically never around (because he was apparently always at her place) and I broke up with him. But she seriously took me for an idiot because when he moved in with her she swore the guy was not my ex.
The way she acted and treated me was horrible and it took me years to make friends and trust people who were not my immediate family. Even now with the friend I have now I sometimes compare the two and my current friend knows it.
I hate myself for it and it bothers me greatly.
How ever our time as friends did not last because after we started fighting (over money and items she borrowed and had not paid/brought back) I found her in my home on my computer printing stuff out. My mother was the one who let her in to help clean to pay off the loan but was not watching her. The girl actually lied to my mother on the phone when my mother called her later and asked if she had been there.
You know how she got caught she didn't clean out the Internet history on my computer and I showed not just that but the amount of ink she used to my mom.
Later on I also found out that she was sleeping with my boyfriend while I was dating him. I never slept with him myself because he was practically never around (because he was apparently always at her place) and I broke up with him. But she seriously took me for an idiot because when he moved in with her she swore the guy was not my ex.
The way she acted and treated me was horrible and it took me years to make friends and trust people who were not my immediate family. Even now with the friend I have now I sometimes compare the two and my current friend knows it.
I hate myself for it and it bothers me greatly.
Only once really. I usually don't trust people until they have proven trustworthy and because of that, very few people have a chance of betraying my trust. Except that one time.
A friend of mine had a girlfriend for about 1 to 1,5 years and me and the girl became pretty close friends, sometimes visiting each other without the boyfriend around. He knew about it and was fine with it. They broke up after a while for reasons I still don't fully understand and she was pretty shaken up by that and some other things. I talked to her a lot during that time, providing the comfort she sought. After a few months she started to talk about how much she liked talking to me and how much she trusted me. Even said she loved me and wanted to be together.
For a while I couldn't be more happy because I had liked that girl a long time even while she was still together with her boyfriend. We started going out and even shared a nice little evening in my home. Two weeks later she does a 180° turn and sends me a text message saying she never really liked me and that she doesn't want to see me again. While talking to my other friends that me and that girl had in common I learn that she had been having one night stands with everyone on our shared friends list except one, my neighbour. One week later she was going out with him and he had no idea what she had been up to.
Now she's is a really horrible looking skinny goth freak according to some friends who has kept contact with her, so in hindsight I might actually have dodged a bullet right after getting into the firing line. I still have trouble trusting women and taking things they say at face value, unless they have proven them trustworthy as mentioned before.
A friend of mine had a girlfriend for about 1 to 1,5 years and me and the girl became pretty close friends, sometimes visiting each other without the boyfriend around. He knew about it and was fine with it. They broke up after a while for reasons I still don't fully understand and she was pretty shaken up by that and some other things. I talked to her a lot during that time, providing the comfort she sought. After a few months she started to talk about how much she liked talking to me and how much she trusted me. Even said she loved me and wanted to be together.
For a while I couldn't be more happy because I had liked that girl a long time even while she was still together with her boyfriend. We started going out and even shared a nice little evening in my home. Two weeks later she does a 180° turn and sends me a text message saying she never really liked me and that she doesn't want to see me again. While talking to my other friends that me and that girl had in common I learn that she had been having one night stands with everyone on our shared friends list except one, my neighbour. One week later she was going out with him and he had no idea what she had been up to.
Now she's is a really horrible looking skinny goth freak according to some friends who has kept contact with her, so in hindsight I might actually have dodged a bullet right after getting into the firing line. I still have trouble trusting women and taking things they say at face value, unless they have proven them trustworthy as mentioned before.
I'd say humanity... but I'd rather not come across as a misanthropic cynic.
It's just that I know what people are capable of and can't trust them... or maybe I'm just paranoid.
It's just that I know what people are capable of and can't trust them... or maybe I'm just paranoid.