u2rocksbaby said:
Reine Kuro said:
I wrote a really long, eloquent reply.
But the forum ate it.
So I'm just going to summarise:
Please take no notice of OP.
He was misdiagnosed.
He was never autistic in the first place.
This doesn't happen.
You can't grow out of it.
Oh, and autism is not a form of insanity, so you have not "returned to sanity".
You overcome some simple social difficulties, I repeat, you were never autistic if you have now "grown out of it"
Congratufuckinglations, you just undid everything I've spent a year trying to get into people's heads in seconds.
Do some fucking research before you make a thread like this.
Mods, please, someone, lock this idiocy or I'll start a real fight.
This fucker is to Autism speaks what "ex-gays" are to the Catholic Church.
Wow. You are exactly the kind of person I hoped this topic would avoid. The number of misconceptions in your post are staggering. From your hate-riddled response to a curious inquiry about human psychology, you've managed to not only completely ignore AND misread the question, but insult my entire life because of some paragraph you no doubt read in a medical textbook. Do you have ANY idea who I am? No, you do not. I'm not going to explain how I had Asperger's, doing so would only make you look even more like an insensitive, foul-mouthed fool than you already do. But when I say I "grew out of it", I mean just that, I grew and matured from that disorder because it made me have to work far harder than someone like you clearly ever did if you have such cynical beliefs in your mind and were willing to write a long, "eloquent" reply about it. Did you even read the other posters' comments? Did you think I was just asking about autism? Did I ever say I was insane? Do you seriously believe that if someone can live happily with autism then they couldn't possibly have it? These are all questions you that you clearly haven't thought through, so frankly, I'm glad no one had to suffer reading through your little "speech".
And I'm not even going to touch that religious flamebait that serves no purpose other than give your post some sort of illusion of validity, considering you provided absolutely no scientific evidence or personal experiences of your own to support your point. If you really are on some crusade to raise awareness of how autistic people are beyond helping, you should not only think of a better way to do it than condemning the very people who don't "fit" into your own personal definition of the disorder, but seriously consider what that says about your outlook on life in general.
Please note that none of the following is meant in a facetious or sarcastic tone.
Very eloquently put.
You didn't say you're living happily with autism.
You said you've grown out of it.
You asked "has anyone ever returned to sanity?"
As I said before, do some research before you make threads like these.
Wow. You are exactly the kind of person I hoped this topic would avoid.
...Sorry. Why did you make it, then? I don't mean to say "don't say something if you don't want a hateful response"; I just mean "don't say something if you're not prepared for a response you don't like/agree with."
The number of misconceptions in your post is staggering.
Please tell me what they were. I do hate spreading/beleiving misconceptions.
...completely ignore AND misread the question
Sorry, I do that all the time. I'm really bad with vaguely formed questions, I have to guess to work out what they mean. If you meant one thing, and I completely misread it as something else, please do correct me and I may apologise/alter my response as appropriate.
...insult my entire life because of some paragraph you no doubt read in a medical textbook.
I'm sorry, I didn't mean to insult you. No, I know. I swore. I'm sorry. I'm coming off my meds* and coherent, logical thought is a bit of a struggle at the moment. Perhaps I should have waited until I'm completely free of them before I responded.
I've also never actually read a medical textbook. I'm just going by what my psychiatrists and doctors have said about my own autism, on the assumption that qualified professionals generally know what they're talking about.
...have to work far harder than someone like you clearly ever did if you have such cynical beliefs
Now there we have an assumption incredibly similar to one you got angry about me making of you. Let's avoid assumptions from now on, shall we?
Did you even read the other posters' comments?
Of course; isn't that normal procedure in forum threads? I read everything, but I only had something to say about the original post.
Do you seriously believe that if someone can live happily with autism then they couldn't possibly have it?
No, and that's not really the point. You didn't say you were living happily with autism, you said you grew out of it.
And I'm not even going to touch that religious flamebait that serves no purpose other than give your post some sort of illusion of validity, considering you provided absolutely no scientific evidence or personal experiences of your own to support your point.
Fair enough, I was just trying to mention something most people would recognise. Catholics trying to "cure" gays is simply a better-known phenomenon than Autism Speaks trying to "cure" autistics. It was the closest paralell I could draw, as both organisations draw a lot of controversy, and they are both trying to "cure" something that is neither a diseae nor, in any sense of the word, curable or temporary.
As for the personal experiences thing, I did say I wrote a very long, eloquent reply, which the forum promptly "ate" (by which I mean, I hit post and didn't post, but everything I'd written was gone). I'd just written all of that, so I was frustrated and couldn't reproduce it. I tried to summarise what I had already typed out. I need to remember to write my posts up in Word documents first, so they don't get lost like that.
...your own personal definition of the disorder...
It's not my personal definition. It is incurable. It is not a disease, so it cannot be cured. It is a permanent disorder, and as such cannot be "grown out of" either. Perhaps you were misdiagnosed. It's not unknown. Perhaps you haven't actually grown out of it, and everyone is just humouring you. Perhaps you've just - shock - found people who like you and consider you a friend, and aren't cruel or childish enough to bully/haggle/pester/badger/tell you about your tics, social failings and general sperges.
...seriously consider what that says about your outlook on life in general.
Sorry.
I really don't understand that.
What
does it say about my outlook on life in general, and how should I be working to change this?
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*I am aware this does not excuse my actions/words. I'm not trying to absolve myself of all responsibility, but rather explain that I am not normally this aggressive and inarticulate.