Having Children...yes or no?
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I get on well with children up until they get to around about 13-14 years old an maturity starts to drpo and they become a pain in the ass. Meh, what else is new there.
I don't know about kids. I guess yes but not for some time yet. I would only have 2 max and most definately not twins. My brothers (twins) have already put me through enough hell for about a decade. I don't need it anymore.
I don't know about kids. I guess yes but not for some time yet. I would only have 2 max and most definately not twins. My brothers (twins) have already put me through enough hell for about a decade. I don't need it anymore.
I'm definitely having kids someday. I want to accomplish things before I have them though. Also have to be settled down and financially stable with my boyfriend. He wants a bastard child though, so we're going to have one before we get married no doubt. 
I dunno, I wouldn't mind having an heir. I am the last on my father's side of the family. So I gotta pass down the name right?
1. I need a wife or pregnant gf to even consider that!
2. I WILL LIKELY NEVER HAVE SEX :0
3. Yes because i have a plan were i fake a kidnapping for 5 years then come back once the child is old enough to were i do not have to change diapers
2. I WILL LIKELY NEVER HAVE SEX :0
3. Yes because i have a plan were i fake a kidnapping for 5 years then come back once the child is old enough to were i do not have to change diapers
SNAAA APP!Nieroshai said:
Hell no, I would make a crap parent anyway and most kids annoy the living shit out of me after 5 minutes in the same room.
I don't really want kids.... ever.
Then again I haven't met a girl I'd consider having kids with (well, maybe one girl).
Then again I haven't met a girl I'd consider having kids with (well, maybe one girl).
Most kids annoy me when I'm around them, but I'm fairly sure I would ignore that facet of childish behavior with my own children. Not to mention that my partner would be doing most of the raising.
What the hell, I could have 11 children and as long as I can manage it financially, I'd even probably enjoy having them around. Gotta spread my family name and gotta train them to continue my work. My family grew up in a low-medium income environment and I dug myself out of that hole; I'd love to raise my own children in a better environment and give them even greater potential, and pass along my own love for knowledge and finance.
What the hell, I could have 11 children and as long as I can manage it financially, I'd even probably enjoy having them around. Gotta spread my family name and gotta train them to continue my work. My family grew up in a low-medium income environment and I dug myself out of that hole; I'd love to raise my own children in a better environment and give them even greater potential, and pass along my own love for knowledge and finance.
Reproduction is selfish in the sense that genes are selfish, wanting copies of themselves to survive downstream; however, the many many acts of raising children are the most exhausting labor you'll complete in your life . . . and I say that as a guy who once opened a upscale from scratch Italian restaurant . . . ANYWAYS, whether or not the initial act of procreation is selfish, won't change the selflessness you'll need to complete the jobVault101 said:
When I have the financial means and care about the right woman enough, I think I want two. Maybe foster or adopt a third. I've always loved kids and can't wait to be in an appropriate situation to have a son or daughter.
Kids? You want me to produce in this world, and stick with for the rest of my life, the very things I hate?
Nadda. No.
Nadda. No.
I absolutely do not want kids of any kind, period. I hate babies, i hate children, i hate that whole puberty phase they go through. I have zero desire to procreate, i do not want that responsibility or money drain and i cannot see the supposed 'joy' in having another mouth to feed. A loud, irritating disgusting mouth that wails like a siren and makes a mess. No thanks.
However, i wouldn't consider a vasectomy ( the idea is just too abhorrent to me ) though it's not like it's a burning issue for me anyway - i'm not exactly sexually active and i'm only 20. Got a ways to go yet before i (if?) "settle down" with someone who will inevitably pressure me to make a lovechild in her belly.
However, i wouldn't consider a vasectomy ( the idea is just too abhorrent to me ) though it's not like it's a burning issue for me anyway - i'm not exactly sexually active and i'm only 20. Got a ways to go yet before i (if?) "settle down" with someone who will inevitably pressure me to make a lovechild in her belly.
Please tell me you're joking? This post right here is why I would not want to have kids. Who the hell made that rule? Why should I give up my freedom and and immaturity for something that poops, cries and spends my money faster than someone who stole my indentity? I'm not religious and I don't really care about carrying on my name once i'm dead. Like we'll know the difference or any of this will matter. Not depressed, just realistic lol.Mezmer said:
I hate how there is a sorta peer pressure to have children nowadays. Like you're looked down upon because you haven't experienced raising a mini you. It seems like people have to have kids in order to complete their lives or bring a sorta reason for existing or it's just what couples do. If you want them then go ahead, but me i'm 27 and still selfish and I want to enjoy my life and travel to non kid friendly places, watch whatever I want on tv and make love to my wife or girlfriend anywhere in the house without having to worry about if the child is okay or if this is good for him. You only get once life so why not put yourself first?
/ end rant, and if a woman doesn't like it, there is the door. Most know ahead of time how I feel before it gets serious so they can't try to guilt trip me lol.