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CRAVE CASE 55

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Ok i play football and am 5'9 about 190 Lbs. I was in a band as the bassist and quit because i cant afford a bass amp so now every day the guitar player from the band who is 5'7 130 as scrawny as they come pushes me in the halls and im about as pissed as i can get i don't want to snich and i can't afford the risk of getting in trouble because of football today i walked through the hall minding my own buiness and he pushed me and i pushed him back and i walked away as pissed as possible because i dont wana hurt him we used to be friends. What should i do?
 

EeveeElectro

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How old are you? Why are pushing each other?
I used to do that in nursery.
I think you need to say something to him, instead of pushing each other like children. Don't sink to his level by using physical contact.
I know you don't want to be a snitch, but telling someone in authority may help, trust me.
Or you could just ignore him, he'll get bored eventually.
 

ZeroMachine

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He's pissed at you because you quit the band? Call the kid an ass and tell him to grow up. You may have been friends with him once but if he's being this much of a prick it isn't worth it, especially since he's mad at you over something so trivial.
 

Hookman

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Tell him to get over it and stop acting like an immature prick. If that doesnt work then just kick his ass. You might not want to do it but at least he'd know not to fuck with you anymore.
 

RavingLibDem

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have you talked to him about why you quit the band? Surely if you explain that you just can't continue then he has to accept that?
 

Abedeus

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190 lbs and someone is pushing you?

Stop being a boy and become a man. COMBO BREAK HIM!!!
 

MarsProbe

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What Tenmar said. Seriously, The Escapist is not an online counselling service, so there's no point trying to use it as one.
 

CRAVE CASE 55

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I'd do these but you relly dont wana be labeled as a snitch in my school and it would be worse because id get some much shit from my football team it would not even be funny and if i beat the shit out of him i might be eneligable to play football and will look like an ass for hiten someone half my size oh and i cant talk to him because hes an ass to evey one and thinks hes all big and bad because he wrestles but if anything ill just knock his ass out
 

bmf185

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Don't beat him up. Just intimidate the crap out of him, as he will not listen to reason (right?). You are bigger. Add some of your bigger football friends to the fun.
 

McNinja

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ok so you don't wanna be a sitch... so? if you don't want that,

Here's what you do:

grab some actual friends to walk with you. Just go with me on this.

make sure they are not right behind you.

when you see him, and he pushes you, tell him to grow the f up and quit acting like a little *****. Then you and your friends follow him until he notices. If he tries to start something, let him. Then have your friends come up and say "is there a problem?" If he doesn't back down, and tries to hit you, let him. Then, when he hits you, (first of all, don't flinch, or say ow. Start laughing at him.) That will constitute a fight, and hopefully get him suspended. Now he is suspended, and he knows he can't hurt you he you don't let him.

If you don't do that, PUSH THE HELL BACK.
 

Aschenkatza

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To the Snitch response:
Who the fuck cares about what everyone at your school thinks? Tell them to back the hell off, it's none of their business. If your football team starts to act like idiots then it's a pretty useless team anyway.

If he keeps bumping into you, he might cause an injury in your shoulder or something and then your screwed for football, aren't you.
 

Ace of Spades

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If you don't want to snitch, and you can't hit him for risk of getting in trouble, what do you want us to tell you? Your only other option is to do nothing.