I know this is supposed to be an escapist forum, but the last thing I should be doing right now is to escape from my issue at hand. I don't know if I've lost her yet, but I can't sit by and do nothing while she walks out of my life for good. Just as the title mentioned, I need some relationship advice, and I was hoping you guys could give me some input because I'm feeling really confused right now.
Here's the situation. We've been together for the last 2 years. I wouldn't call us a perfect couple but things have been relatively smooth sailing with no major issues this whole time. She hasn't brought anything up either so I would assume things were good with her as well? I mean I used to be able to say that with confidence but the fact that she left me says otherwise. We had minor disagreements from time to time, but nothing I would say worthy of breaking up over.
Just last Friday, she calls me after work suggesting we meet for dinner. She still sounded completely normal so I didn't suspect anything while driving over. At the restaurant, over dinner, she suddenly brings up the topic of breaking up and the reason she gave was what bothered me because it's way too ambiguous. All she said was that we should break up and that she couldn't carry on with this relationship anymore because she wasn't happy. When I asked her what she wasn't happy about, she just tried to avoid the topic by going around in circles claiming how different we are. Then she just takes off, without even giving me a chance to try and change her mind.
She hasn't returned my messages or calls this past weekend, and I don't know what to do now because I don't even know what went wrong. I'm not sure if she has another guy, or if she genuinely wasn't happy, and the ambiguity is driving me crazy. What do you think I should do about this? I really want her back but I won't be able to achieve it if I don't even know what went wrong.
Any help is much appreciated guys!
Here's the situation. We've been together for the last 2 years. I wouldn't call us a perfect couple but things have been relatively smooth sailing with no major issues this whole time. She hasn't brought anything up either so I would assume things were good with her as well? I mean I used to be able to say that with confidence but the fact that she left me says otherwise. We had minor disagreements from time to time, but nothing I would say worthy of breaking up over.
Just last Friday, she calls me after work suggesting we meet for dinner. She still sounded completely normal so I didn't suspect anything while driving over. At the restaurant, over dinner, she suddenly brings up the topic of breaking up and the reason she gave was what bothered me because it's way too ambiguous. All she said was that we should break up and that she couldn't carry on with this relationship anymore because she wasn't happy. When I asked her what she wasn't happy about, she just tried to avoid the topic by going around in circles claiming how different we are. Then she just takes off, without even giving me a chance to try and change her mind.
She hasn't returned my messages or calls this past weekend, and I don't know what to do now because I don't even know what went wrong. I'm not sure if she has another guy, or if she genuinely wasn't happy, and the ambiguity is driving me crazy. What do you think I should do about this? I really want her back but I won't be able to achieve it if I don't even know what went wrong.
Any help is much appreciated guys!