So, I've got a lingering problem, mostly in my head now.
I used to be friends with a guy, I spent a good few months pretty much getting a quite good idea of his personality and in the end, he came across as quite selfish and quite a few aspects of his personality seemed to not gel with mine.
What caused the relationship to crumble was his dragging of me to a location the opposite of where we normally go, because where we normally go "is a shithole and I don't want to get my PIN stolen", which he only explains after dragging me to the place.
I argue against this logic and receive a resounding "tough shit" and which point, I decided "fuck this" and inform him that I'm going back to college, he states that he isn't and I state "I know, but you're the one that said 'tough shit'" to which he mumbles something about how I'll regret this and need something from him, someday...
and now we never talk to each other.
What's a problem for me is that I don't know what bothered me about this... is it that when I discovered that I befriended someone who's personality I dislike I realised what a bad judge of character I am or is it just that since we didn't have a big "FUCK YOU" shouting match to officially end the friendship I'm hung up on it? I'm not sure.
Anyone help a socially-inexperienced Limey out here?
I used to be friends with a guy, I spent a good few months pretty much getting a quite good idea of his personality and in the end, he came across as quite selfish and quite a few aspects of his personality seemed to not gel with mine.
What caused the relationship to crumble was his dragging of me to a location the opposite of where we normally go, because where we normally go "is a shithole and I don't want to get my PIN stolen", which he only explains after dragging me to the place.
I argue against this logic and receive a resounding "tough shit" and which point, I decided "fuck this" and inform him that I'm going back to college, he states that he isn't and I state "I know, but you're the one that said 'tough shit'" to which he mumbles something about how I'll regret this and need something from him, someday...
and now we never talk to each other.
What's a problem for me is that I don't know what bothered me about this... is it that when I discovered that I befriended someone who's personality I dislike I realised what a bad judge of character I am or is it just that since we didn't have a big "FUCK YOU" shouting match to officially end the friendship I'm hung up on it? I'm not sure.
Anyone help a socially-inexperienced Limey out here?
