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wow it sucks to be you. Do you actually need the pills? cause my step dad need s to take anger pills. I asked his doctor what horomones and chemicals they suppresed or altered and he said they were placeebo's.elitepie931 said:
honestly your 15. your relationship was unlikly to last. Just think of the relationship as practice for when you meet the one you're going to really love. Also, you said she deserves someone better. this shows alot of maturity on your part. I know lots of guys who only want to fuck there gals and thats it. Or only want them for posing.most of them are for drama purposes. God i hate being a teen. But i also have a friend who's been dating a girl since he was 5. he'll probably marry her. My point is that if it didn't work out then theres nothing you can do. There is probably someone out there better for both of you. and remember, your 15! I know what its like being told how unimportant relationships are at this age, but more often then not its true. Besides, the fact that you need mood-regulators shows your an overly emotional kid. So theres not much to be done there unless you want to take yoga or something(it really helps) or do something you find relaxing. Or do what i did and take up nihilism.
Okay, protip: if you're on medication, either take your medication or talk to your doctor about switching treatment. Don't go off your meds cold turkey with out consulting your doctor. You're on meds for a reason and if you suddenly stop taking them it's going to aggravate that.elitepie931 said:
I don't think you're bad or a worthless person. You're fifteen, you've been in a relationship since you were thirteen. I know it seems like you had everything figured out two weeks ago, but you've still got a lot of growing to do. I'm 19 and I realize that I've still got a lot of growing to do.
I recommend you forget about suicide: you're in high school, your life hasn't even started yet. The thing about high school is, everything gets better once you're out of there. If you still have those negative thoughts, talk to someone that can help. You know you don't have to be crazy to get help.
Maybe spend some time focusing on an interest would help - something you're passionate about; like art, fiction, sports. Do you have anything you're good at, or that you really enjoy? What direction are you heading in career wise?
Placebo doesn't mean they do nothing. The placebo effect produces very real results, without having to resort to actual drugs. Plus, the method of treatment that your dad is taking may differ from the method of treatment that our OP is on.Lullabye said:
Whole life ahead of you, plenty of fish in the ocean, yadda yadda yadda, insert random clichè encouragement here.
Seriously though, man up, stop crying, get on with your life, get a better girl.
Seriously though, man up, stop crying, get on with your life, get a better girl.
You're 15, you've been dating this girl since you were 11? Dude, get over it. Time heals everything. You have about 65 more years of your life, don't let 4 of them ruin you. If that doesn't work, those pills are always there!
But seriously....Time heals.
But seriously....Time heals.
Carrer wise?ThrobbingEgo said:
I've been wanting to create games ever since I was 6, never really looked at anything else.
erm...I was in the relationship since I was 11.
Also, on a side note your avatar looks like my psychiatrist or how ever the hell you spell that word.
The kid came here for help, and we're responding to him. Whether or not we think the situation's trivial, it's very real and pressing to him. If you don't want to help him you're free to comment on another thread.Lullabye said:
Your psychiatrist is trying to look like Freud.elitepie931 said:
If you're interested in game design, you should check out blogs like Destructoid and the Tigsource community. Here's an article about game design that I find inspiring: http://www.destructoid.com/the-memory-card-20-the-message-in-the-glass-48554.phtml
Have you dabbled around with any software languages? Do you draw maps and level designs? Heck, you might want to run a few pen and paper games if you're more interested in the design than the coding. Creating playable scenarios for a small audience can be a great way of building your design chops.
If theres one thing I know about her, its the fact she won't ever do things like that, and I only said that out of anger she overreacts about her weight.Anonymouse said:
I don't expect her to come back, I really do love her, but its better if we arn't together and I knew it woulden't last, I just want her to be happy, but I wanna forget about it and just move on.
Oh, stop saying that. It sounds good, but you need to focus on what you need right now. Relationships can't be only about making the other person feel good at no regard for yourself - it's not a healthy balance.elitepie931 said:
It helps if you don't put her on a pedestal and try to be a little more down to earth.
i did write a good rant to help him. but just because its real doesnt make it any less trivial. Like if my hamster died. it would mean alot to me(more so if i actually had a hamster) but its still stupid. Its life, we deal with it. what sucks for some doesn't for others. I still sympathize with him cause i know what its like when someone you love leaves because of something stupid you did, but take a look at it objectivly would you? geez.*sigh*ThrobbingEgo said:
Thanks I guess.ThrobbingEgo said:Your psychiatrist is trying to look like Freud.elitepie931 said:
If you're interested in game design, you should check out blogs like Destructoid and the Tigsource community. Here's an article about game design that I find inspiring: http://www.destructoid.com/the-memory-card-20-the-message-in-the-glass-48554.phtml
Have you dabbled around with any software languages? Do you draw maps and level designs? Heck, you might want to run a few pen and paper games if you're more interested in the design than the coding. Creating playable scenarios for a small audience can be a great way of building your design chops.
I'm not sure why I seem to be better at makeing a story rather then all that other stuff, which is what I want to learn more about, Mapping is what I want to learn mostly.
I might need to Pm you, I seem to be a little bit in control right now still kinda...yeah.
Not necessarily. He might have needed to take placebos to be able to take control of himself. Also, some people are very receptive to placebos and they can have chemical effects within their bodies. It's basically an exploit of a defense mechanism.Lullabye said:
It doesn't mean he's faking and the doctor's humoring him.
the reason your better at story and such is because your probably more right brained(i think thats right). right brained indiviuals are better at art and literature and abstract thinking than left brained individuals who are more logical. Im the same way.elitepie931 said:Thanks I guess.ThrobbingEgo said:Your psychiatrist is trying to look like Freud.elitepie931 said:
If you're interested in game design, you should check out blogs like Destructoid and the Tigsource community. Here's an article about game design that I find inspiring: http://www.destructoid.com/the-memory-card-20-the-message-in-the-glass-48554.phtml
Have you dabbled around with any software languages? Do you draw maps and level designs? Heck, you might want to run a few pen and paper games if you're more interested in the design than the coding. Creating playable scenarios for a small audience can be a great way of building your design chops.
I'm not sure why I seem to be better at makeing a story rather then all that other stuff, which is what I want to learn more about, Mapping is what I want to learn mostly.
I might need to Pm you, I seem to be a little bit in control right now still kinda...yeah.
I'm not a relativist. It's just, when someone's upset, I'd think you'd want them to resolve their problems before you make light of them, wholesale. Take what I say with a grain of salt though. Though I have a Freud avatar, it's just meant as ironic contrast to my user name. I'm not an expert on anything.Lullabye said: