If it's the video I think it is, stop referencing it, no matter how obliquely. Some people don't even want to know, and the Mods would crack down pretty hard as well.
Fair point. When reality comes into play, many people want to feel involved or like they are making a difference, however in the case I am putting forward here (I know it doesn't help because I'm not specifying, though that's the point) many people seek out the opportunity to witness extreme violence and cruelty to another human. Whether it be to scare the shit out of themselves, to spiral into depression or to just stare slack jawed at how uncaring and brutal we can be to one another, what drives our curioisities to this extent and what becomes of us IF this kind of video becomes more and more commonplace to the point where we, one day, may walk past a person bleeding to death in the street without a second thought? I'm not saying we'll descend into barbarism, yet the way people seem to seek out this kind of material is a little disturbing do you not think?atalanta said:I think I might be misunderstanding some of the context and discussing something rather different than you mean, since i have exactly no idea what you're talking about, but I think it's both a good thing and a bad thing.SmartIdiot said:Mm. That brings back the horrors of my old Modern Studies class. The human race can be vicious, to the point of earning self-termination. However the point of this thread is to discuss the effects of developments in technology which allow people to witness mans inhumanity to man second hand and how that affects the way people function day to day, since access to this information is at our very fingertips. Consider this; do you perhaps think that maybe some people are right when they say things were better in the old days? Ignorance probably was bliss then.
On one hand, watching horrible things you can't do anything about can desensitise you to various horrors, and I don't think that's a good thing.
At the same time, though, thanks to the immediacy of the internet, mobilising against Bad Shit Going Down, even in small ways, is easier and faster. For instance, look at the response to the protests after the Iranian election. Sites like Youtube, Twitter, and Facebook got information about what was happening out quickly all over the world; people responded by organising protests and setting up proxies and so on.
I was reading the other day about charities; it said that ads featuring one person and a request for donations do much better than ads showing lots of people; there's something about the small-scale individual level that motivates people, as opposed to things that affect an entire group. Related to that, it's easy to not care about what's going on in another part of the world when you read about it in a newspaper; watching a Youtube video showing a young woman bleeding to death in the street while her family desperately tries to save her makes the situation feel more real and important to people who aren't immediately involved.
Awesome, this is the first post I haven't had to counter-quote on. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU for injecting a little shock therapy into the session, no sarcasm intended(I know how easily it gets mixed up these days). This is PRECISELY the point I am trying to make here. A lot of kids think it's 'cool' and 'edgy' to be a 'sociopath' without actually having a clue what it is these days. Violence is funny, inject a little 'dark humour', it gets funnier. Really? Even with content like this? Doubtful, this is the knock on the head that no one wants.Swollen Goat said:Oh, I agree 100%. And there are always some psychopaths that would do it without a second thought. I worry more about the people in the middle of that spectrum. You know there's kids out there thinking about how cool something like that would be. Maybe a few of them could see this video and realize just how horrible it is when it actually happens. Of course, it could send them off on a killing spree too but I guess I'd prefer to believe the former possibility is more likely.Icecoldcynic said:I honestly think that the content displayed in that video would be physically impossible for any normal person to carry out. I just don't believe, short of having serious mental issues, I could ever bring myself to do something like that, even on pain of death.
Hence why my references have been so vague. This is a place for discussion, correct? There's little the mods can do when I'm not giving away much to this particular... obscenity and when it's igniting some dicussion. As I've already warned, those who might've have caught on to what it is are suggested to leave, along with those who do not wish to discuss it. While it's not pleasant it's very real, some people may have an opinion to offer.MelasZepheos said:If it's the video I think it is, stop referencing it, no matter how obliquely. Some people don't even want to know, and the Mods would crack down pretty hard as well.
Alright, now that I've got a better grasp on what's actually being discussed --SmartIdiot said:Fair point. When reality comes into play, many people want to feel involved or like they are making a difference, however in the case I am putting forward here (I know it doesn't help because I'm not specifying, though that's the point) many people seek out the opportunity to witness extreme violence and cruelty to another human. Whether it be to scare the shit out of themselves, to spiral into depression or to just stare slack jawed at how uncaring and brutal we can be to one another, what drives our curioisities to this extent and what becomes of us IF this kind of video becomes more and more commonplace to the point where we, one day, may walk past a person bleeding to death in the street without a second thought? I'm not saying we'll descend into barbarism, yet the way people seem to seek out this kind of material is a little disturbing do you not think?
While I understand that sentiment, it is important to remember that this is not some sort of democracy, and the only rights are those granted by the staff/mods. It's more of a usually-benevolent oligarchy.SmartIdiot said:Hence why my references have been so vague. This is a place for discussion, correct? There's little the mods can do when I'm not giving away much to this particular... obscenity and when it's igniting some dicussion.MelasZepheos said:If it's the video I think it is, stop referencing it, no matter how obliquely. Some people don't even want to know, and the Mods would crack down pretty hard as well.
Assuming you're referring to taking a look at a traffic accident, no. I'm usually driving and the last thing I want to look at is another smashed up car, not to mention it reminds me of people I've known who have died in crashes. I've seen this a couple of times and have just driven past hoping the person(s) involved were ok.atalanta said:Alright, now that I've got a better grasp on what's actually being discussed --SmartIdiot said:Fair point. When reality comes into play, many people want to feel involved or like they are making a difference, however in the case I am putting forward here (I know it doesn't help because I'm not specifying, though that's the point) many people seek out the opportunity to witness extreme violence and cruelty to another human. Whether it be to scare the shit out of themselves, to spiral into depression or to just stare slack jawed at how uncaring and brutal we can be to one another, what drives our curioisities to this extent and what becomes of us IF this kind of video becomes more and more commonplace to the point where we, one day, may walk past a person bleeding to death in the street without a second thought? I'm not saying we'll descend into barbarism, yet the way people seem to seek out this kind of material is a little disturbing do you not think?
As has been pointed out, a certain portion of the population is going to watch shit like this and think, "AWESOME." Those people are sick in the head and not who I'm interested in talking about; I'd rather discuss the people who are both revolted and fascinated by this sort of thing. I think part of the impulse to watch things like this is that it names your fears; by giving them a shape and a name, it makes them more manageable.
I used to read a lot of true crime and look for crime scene photos because I found them perversely comforting. There was always a kind of relief seeing the damage or reading about the brutality -- sort of a sense of, "well, okay, that's bad, but it's a survivable level of bad," if that makes any sense -- being able to point to a picture and say, "look, here, this is what happens if you get shot in the leg" made the thought of getting shot in the leg less scary (not that I was seriously concerned about getting shot, but hey, I'm paranoid). If the very worst came to pass, knowing what you'd look like and how badly you'd be hurting at the end of it gives you a handle on how to deal with it.
Is this even sort of making sense? I'm not articulating this well at all, sorry.
I have a question for you, if I may. Do you rubberneck, and if you do, do you feel bad about doing it? Do you think rubbernecking and searching out stuff out like this are similar sorts of things (albeit orders of magnitude apart), or are they completely different?
I didn't mean to come across so... dramatic. You just often find that even despite their better judgement quite a few people will still go ahead and look at something that challenges their view of the real world as a decent place. Either that or some jackass will think it's funny to post shock site links in as many places as he can just to cause outrage. Not everyone is clued-in to what you do and do not click on and where. Then you get the people who have seen something, realised it's horrible and decided to share it with people so they're not alone in their trauma.UnusualStranger said:The internet is....well....A tool.
You act as if the internet is some thing that has the power to corrupt or save. While it does have that power, it is only made to do so by the person wielding it.
The internet has become huge. In all instances. It is use to entertain, terrorize, save, destroy, teach, lie, spread love, spread hate...It does just about everything these days. The thing is, it can only do this if people learn how to use it as such.
Yes, perhaps some people will become twisted beyond repair, and some will become sicker than all other things before the internet. However, some people will be smarter than all others before them. Some will be better connected to others that ordinarily would have never happened.
The internet is not something that changes everything it touches. Some people stay decent on the internet. They shun and avoid things that they feel are absolutely despicable to them. Perhaps more have become twisted because of it. But perhaps that is because we remember the worst times clearer than we can remember the time in which someone helped us immensely. Perhaps things seem darker because we lack the mind to remember the lighter times with more clarity....Perhaps.
*shrug*SmartIdiot said:
i agree with your way of reasoning.BlindMessiah94 said:2 girls one cup? Never saw it. The way I see it is, you always have a choice. If you think it's wrong watching that kind of stuff, then don't.
But the fact that so many people watch this stuff is just an indication that human nature is fucked up.
Fair point, I guess regardless of what medium is involved people will always want to 'push boundaries' I suppose.UnusualStranger said:*shrug*SmartIdiot said:
Sorry, not sure how to properly convey the proper response on this internet thing. However, people are a bit more unique than most give them credit for. Shock links? While yes, some people will chase them, sometimes those are the people who do things just because they don't know what will happen. It's kinda like the "idiocy" chase, in which if the internet wasn't there, these people would do something equally stupid or shocking anyway, and share it with others.
Yep, that's a very valid point. However do you not think when people get past the naivety of their formative years it's a good thing to try and grasp every instance we can to avoid the harsh realities of the world? Like I mentioned before, people have been doing far worse things to one another long before the idea of the internet was conceived. The only difference is now we have the technology to record it and put it up where anyone and everyone can see it. This takes perversion to a whole new level I suppose. Of course it's ugly and horrible out there, everyone is bound to experience something traumatic in their lives. This is a positive thing in the long run though because it often makes the person stronger at the end of the day. Yet if being able to witness tragedies second-hand becomes commonplace how will a younger generation learn to cope with something that directly affects them if they are so desensitised to it? Then again, perhaps this is the next step for the human race, a gruesome acceptance of the brutality people will inflict on one another.Anoctris said:Yes, absolutely - but does that mean we should indulge or sugarcoat the world-that-is for the innocent?SmartIdiot said:Of course ignorance is a scourge, but what about those who, like I mentioned before, may stumble upon it unawares? That could have a potentially destructive effect on their well being and trust of people in the long run.
I totally believe in the adage "Survival of the fittest". In this imperfect world, the key to survival is adapting to your environment, overcoming dangers and threats to your body and mind. To seek refuge in innocence and ignorance is to set yourself up to fail that battle - imo. I'm not saying that in order to survive a morally defunct world that people should immerseve themselves in depravity, but choosing to remain ignorant of it can only increase the potential hurt later in life. These are tasks that I will not enjoy, especially the day when I will have to explain to my son the dangers of pedophilia and other deviances - but it must be done to increase his chances of safety.
Well that was partly the point of this thread. Since it's so easy to capture and distribute footage of such things it seems to have a greater impact, usually because much of the human race doesn't get to witness it in such detail. Where will this lead us? I'm not trying to suggest we'll descend into anarchy yet we do seem to grow colder with the growing desensitasion of things.Swollen Goat said:As far as that aspect of human nature goes, I don't really think mankind is any sicker than we were centuries ago. To me, the only thing that's changed is that the dissemination of information is so widespread and quick when someone does something depraved it's thousands of times easier to hear about (or, obviously, see the video of it). The Spanish Inquisition did some pretty f'ed up stuff to people, but there was no media to spread the word like there is today so fewer nutjobs would hear about someone getting eviscerated or whatever and think,"Hey, good idea!"SmartIdiot said:Fair point, I guess regardless of what medium is involved people will always want to 'push boundaries' I suppose.