Alright, to make this brief. There is a girl I work with. She's probably been working there for about four months now. We've become pretty good friends over that time. We hang in and out of work, text, and do various other things. This entire time I've just considered us friends. We have a lot in common, such as gaming and nerd interest, and talk about that stuff a lot. I'm going to break this up by signs that show interest and signs that show no interest.
Interest
The past month or so, she's been saying strange things in front of me. For example, one day she opened up a photo book of a wedding and pointed to the married couple saying "You and I one day." After that though we went into a joke about using our marriage to get free stuff and I just laughed it off at the time. Then today, it happened again. A picture came out of an older couple holding hands, walking on a beach. She said "You and I in our olden days." This time no joke followed. Before I left work today, she asked me if I would marry her, jokingly I responded "sure". Turns out, after I left she spend the rest of the night talking about me, going on about the marriage thing, and how good we would be together. She's also randomly told me about her fetishes for some reason too.
No Interest
The only one I can think of, is that she's good friends with another co-worker. But she never calls him anything other than best-friend. She also has told me she makes friends with guys she doesn't like, which I'd call us friends so maybe she doesn't.
Anyway, when it comes to women and if they like me or not, I tend to become quite daft. I usually miss the obvious signs or completely take something for more than what it is. So in this situation, would you say this girl has feelings for me? Or am I making something out of nothing? I'd like some outside opinions that aren't my co-workers possibly giving me shit. I'll answer any questions as well.
Interest
The past month or so, she's been saying strange things in front of me. For example, one day she opened up a photo book of a wedding and pointed to the married couple saying "You and I one day." After that though we went into a joke about using our marriage to get free stuff and I just laughed it off at the time. Then today, it happened again. A picture came out of an older couple holding hands, walking on a beach. She said "You and I in our olden days." This time no joke followed. Before I left work today, she asked me if I would marry her, jokingly I responded "sure". Turns out, after I left she spend the rest of the night talking about me, going on about the marriage thing, and how good we would be together. She's also randomly told me about her fetishes for some reason too.
No Interest
The only one I can think of, is that she's good friends with another co-worker. But she never calls him anything other than best-friend. She also has told me she makes friends with guys she doesn't like, which I'd call us friends so maybe she doesn't.
Anyway, when it comes to women and if they like me or not, I tend to become quite daft. I usually miss the obvious signs or completely take something for more than what it is. So in this situation, would you say this girl has feelings for me? Or am I making something out of nothing? I'd like some outside opinions that aren't my co-workers possibly giving me shit. I'll answer any questions as well.
