Holy...crap!

[PurpleLeafRave]

Yeah, so I just got a call from my best friend. He calls me about once every 3 days and we have really long chats. I was expecting this to be the same, instead I got about a minutes chat, and here's how it went.

Lately, I've been going round his house and he's been messaging this girl. She sounded really flirty, if a little too flirty. The phone conversation started with "make sure nobody is listening in", and so I was a bit suspicious. Then he said- "So, I've been talking with this girl, and I told her all about you. She said you sounded nice."

I was like cool we should meet up. But then he said. "Well...she's invited you round for...well...sex."

That's when my jaw hit the floor. "Wtf?" I said. He said "Yeah, I told her you were a virgin in conversation, not meaning anything by it". The phone conversation went on, and then he said "So yeah, she's said that because your a virgin, she's willing to show you the ropes. Everyone is nervous on their first time, but she's gonna guide you through it. That way, when you come to have sex with someone you really love, you won't be as nervous."

I am gob smacked. I honestly don't know what to say. Apparently, she's not a slut but has some experience.
What would you do in my situation? I'm 16 by the way.

*Edit* By the way, my friend knows the girl.
*Another Edit* And I know what she looks like, she's a metal head.

 

[anthony87]

Go for it dude if you want.

You could think of it as a tutorial but don't feel like you HAVE to do it.

 

[PurpleLeafRave]

Sorry, this is in Gaming Discussion. Didn't realise that.

 

[Nixzilla]

well i guess go for it






[lucky bastard]

 

[khaimera]

The 16 year old me would have done it/her in a heartbeat. The now trying to be an adult me says that it would probably be better idea to wait to have sex with someone you care about, and not just some slutty girl.

 

[Simalacrum]

Ok, seriously, don't go through with it.

Its perfectly normal to be a virgin at your age dude, no need to hurry things along with someone you don't even know.

Also, why is this in gaming discussion? Its an off-topic thread, mate

 

[Thaius]

Personally? Experience is overrated. Sex is incomplete unless it's with someone you love. I say screw experience: if your first time isn't with someone you truly love and are undyingly committed to, you'll come to regret it. No matter how inexperienced you are, if you love the person, that's what will make your first time great.

 

[DM master]

I am gob smacked. I honestly don't know what to say. Apparently, she's not a slut but has some experience.
What would you do in my situation? I'm 16 by the way.

I disagree: Is slut

And go for it if you want to, Unless your you know "saving yourself for marrage", or something like that. It could be a good oppertunity cause i remeber my first time sucked So some tips could be helpful.

Edit: Also, ITS SEX.. it feels good..

 

[Marter]

I wouldn't go for it.

I'm waiting until I get the chance with someone I love, and loves me back. I understand the "showing you the ropes" thing, but I think if you find someone where there is mutual love between you, it wouldn't matter if one of you is inexperienced.

 

[CloudKiller]

What the hell are you doing making threads when you have better things to do

Although seriously if you don't feel ready then don't

 

[Blazing Steel]

If you had already had it a couple of times I would say go for it, but since it would be your first time, I would leave it and save it for someone you care about.

 

[khaimera]

EDIT: The logic of doing it now so are less nervous later is incorrect. If you really know nothing about sex, use the internet. The first time you sleep with someone who you are in a relationship with, you WILL be nervous no matter what. It will probably end quickly too, even if you are not a virgin becuase of this girl.

I accidently quoted myself, hence the doubel post.

 

[Skuffyshootster]

I was in this same situation a couple days ago, except without the sex part.

I didn't feel like getting involved with a girl, so I texted her saying I wasn't interested. Of course, she never replied back, but I think I handled it pretty well...

 

[EMFCRACKSHOT]

I say do it, but only if you really really want to. In the words of my dearly departed grandfather "if god made anything better than sex and beer, he kept it to himself"
you lucky lucky bastard.

 

[MCDeltaT]

Is she fat?

 

[cricket chirps]

moraly i would say no, but such a thing does not happen often, the oppertunistic person in me says you should take the oppertuniy

 

[nick n stuff]

envy...what envy?
yeah...there's envy. go for it, do it for the team

 

[PurpleLeafRave]

Is she fat?

No. I have her on facebook. I wasn't perving, I've just seen her profile pic.

 

[MBergman]

Haha, that was funny!

But what can I say? I was actually in a similar situation once, but I was a tad bit younger mind you. I declinded, pretty much because I did not feel like it. I'd say just think about what you feel like doing. Feel like declining and saving it for something a bit more special? Then do that! No one's gonna dump you for being bad in bed the first time around, hell it's expected I'd say!

On the other hand, if you feel like having a bit of sex with a nice girl, then why not?

 

[KaiRai]

I'd say leave it, if she's willing to 'show you the ropes' then despite what he says, she is a slut.
In fact, she almost sounds like a prostitute.