Have her sit down somewhere comfortable, give her something nice to drink (soda, coffee, wine) then find your favourite game, be that of beautiful scenery, story, or simply mechanics. Explain to her, without letting her speak before you are finished, why you do not have a disease that she needs to cure, you just socialize easier with your friends that way, since they live so far away, and that it is simply something you enjoy doing. Probably good to mention other things you like doing too. See if it helps. Remember, you can always compromise
