How do I introduce myself to a girl I like?

[Seabear]

Considering I don't know the first thing about american college life, this sounds like really good advice.
Preliminary communication with your coming schoolmates will put you on the social map I'm sure and if you can do something that will draw attention to you (in a good, socially acceptable way) at the start of your college life you'll really get a headstart in socialising with these people.

British

But yeah, pretty universal, I'd say, strike while the iron's hot, if you will. Make some key close friends, they'll make friends of their own, and you can be introduced in due course, just don't go out on the first day looking for your wife.

 

[Ninjat_126]

In the least creepy way possible, watch her for a bit and see what she's doing.

If you see her reading a book you like or something similar, maybe comment on it. Just say hello and try and have a conversation.

If you don't see her doing anything you can relate to, reconsider. Maybe go talk to her if you happen to both be waiting around someplace together and have an opportunity.

If it seems too awkward to just go talk to her and you can't work up the nerve to do so, drop it and walk away. You've been obsessing over an image and not thinking about who she really is.

Ask her out or similar early on, after talking to her for a bit and finding some common ground. You've admitted you like her, so trying to be "just friends" would be kind of pathetic and pretty much guarantee an unhappy ending if she's not interested. Just tell her upfront (casually) and if she turns you down, no harm done.

[Seriously, don't try to befriend her if you already like her. If you found out you were interested in her after being friends for a while, that's one thing (Exhibit A, yours truly). Pretending to be "just friends" in order to get closer to her is a bit too far.]

 

[Apprentice88]

1. Go to Pub.
2. Find Girl, Ask "Hi, do you mind if I buy you a Drink?"
3. ???
4. Profit.

Rinse and Repeat as nessesary.

 

[Sparrow]

Either wait for the opportune moment or be forward about it. Saying "Hi" is often the hardest bit, it should lead on from there.

 

[HardkorSB]

I am going to university next year, so that means that my opportunity to meet someone I like will be at its peak. I am a socially repressed gamer who goes to a private school with one girl in my class (she's not my type). Please help me and all the other people who'll read this post.

At a university? That's easy.
Just walk up to her and say: "Excuse me, I'm new here and I'm a little lost. Could you tell me how can I get to..."

 

[Little Duck]

Don't think how to do. Do. More than that there is nout else.

 

[ChadSexington]

Don't go up to a girl and just be like "Hi, my name's _______" make some small talk and see if they're easy enough to get along with. Don't be direct, be casual man. Talk like you're talking to someone you know but not well.

 

[Hitokiri_Gensai]

all i can say is, be real, dont try and lie about things, even if you think they're "not a big deal". We dont wanna hear how your some heroic motorcycle riding firefighter who rescued four kids with one hand. Or, ok atleast I DONT, i wanna know who you really are inside. Trust me, when youre talking about having a relationship, and im not saying that the first thing out of your mouth, i want the person to be honest and truthful.

 

[Simmo8591]

If your going to uni I'd say join a sport or society that your into, It will get you meeting new people (girls and guys) and any girls there will have an immediate shared interest.

Also if you go all out just stalking girls it's a lot harder. your new male friends from your new sport may well c u on nights out and will be with their housemates, say hi to them and get mutual friends to break the ice with girls. the whole ' hi I'm x I met your friend y at the z social last week, how do you know him?.... oh you live together in halls how interesting'

 

[Quiet Stranger]

Take a cloth and ask her if it smells like chloroform, it's how I met my girl! (joking, I"M SO ALONE!)

 

[AJM]

I am going to university next year, so that means that my opportunity to meet someone I like will be at its peak. I am a socially repressed gamer who goes to a private school with one girl in my class (she's not my type). Please help me and all the other people who'll read this post.

alright bro, best advice i can give you. Confidence. Girls love that stuff. More important than confidence is being yourself! You would not believe how many girls can relate to you even if youre a total nerd. Trust me I know. But just remember these three things

-Have Confidence
-Have Fun
-Be yourself

You got this man!

 

[jowo96]

Get in a plane and skydive out of it, parachute down to a location where there are babes and when you land have some friends set off some fire works and if you have any musical friends get them to play TNT by AC/DC then just walk up to a girl you like, put on some shades and say "Whats up"

High risk, high reward.

Alternatively you could talk to her like a normal person and build up a secure, funtional relationship, but who wants that?

 

[Arrogancy]

My advice is to try to drop in on a conversation she is having. This way you don't have to initiate a conversation or introduce yourself immediately. This will take some patience and proper timing though.

 

[DrDango]

depends what you looking for sex try this

(bar senerio)

you: Hello my name is (insert name) can i buy you a drink

(option 1)girl: sure

(option 2)girl: no thanks

(option 2)you: ok

rince and repeat.

(end senerio)

for a relisionship try this

(work senerio)

you: Hello my name is (insert name) do you wanna go out for coffee

(option 1)girl: sure

(option 2)girl: no thanks

(option 2)you: ok

(end senerio)

feel free to change the formula as you please

 

[pspman45]

Simple tip, when you find the appropriate woman, but it seems like she is always talking to other people, you put on your best Scorpion voice and do X for Xbox)

works every time

(if you don't know that one, its Scorpion's famous grapple hook)

 

[commodore96]

If you see a hot girl say "Nice shoes want to fuck?"
69% of the time it works everytime

 

[Gustavo S. Buschle]

If you want to have a relationship you have to be friends first, but don't make it look like you are not interested in her. Though if you just want to get in her pants then you should be more direct.

 

[Eisenfaust]

There's this one line I was considering using... were it of any relevance to me, and were the situation in question not ACTUALLY the situation in question...

there was this girl in a lecture i was in who looked MASSIVELY like a post-op transgender (not that there's anything wrong with that, etc, i don't care, and hey, she was a nosy *****). a friend of mine agreed with me...

i was considering walking up to her and saying "hey, some guys over there are convinced you used to be a man, and i'm just coming over here to prove those pricks wrong", etc...

now, i can understand why this wouldn't work, but on the plus side, you're defending her, saying how little she looks like a man, etc, etc....

keep in mind, as a pick up line it's rather fledgling... i orignally came up with it as a method of getting me to shake her hand (and see if i could figure it out that way)...

give it a whirl, might do nothing, might get slapped, who knows

 

[jacobythehedgehog]

Be yourself, A girl will like you for who you are, not who you are not.

 

[Michael Logan]

My penis is super big, some would say it could stretch from a-z on the keyboard... But I let the women do the deciding

ninjad Damn =.=

Im not sure if english keyboards are diffrent than swedish ones, but from A-Z there is 0,5cm, I dont think she would be impressed by that.