I feel a little weird and possibly hipster when I say I talk about my sexuality, fetishes, turn-ons and other stuff quite openly. Usually accustomed with laughter. I always try to poke fun at myself.
How open are you with sexuality?
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I'm very open with one or two of my closest friends but I tend not to talk too much about my sex life with people I can't trust to keep it a secret, bearing in mind my only sexual partner is the girlfriend I am currently with. Besides that I have to say I am very comfortable with my sexuality and have been mistaken for being gay a few times simply because my best friend is gay and I act in a very similar manner to him, which leads to a similar first impression when I meet new people.
I'm not saying that either of us act like a stereotype either, people normally get the wrong idea when they either meet me when I am drunk (which is rare) or when I meet someone who already knows my best friend.
I'm not saying that either of us act like a stereotype either, people normally get the wrong idea when they either meet me when I am drunk (which is rare) or when I meet someone who already knows my best friend.
Completely open.
I'm as straight as straight can be.
I don't get pleasure out of my own pleasure unless it's directly connected to the pleasure of others. Ie. a handjob is interesting, but it does nothing to me. I think my last gf tried that until both her arms got tired. She gave up. But sex I like a lot because it's less about me getting pleasure and more about pleasing someone else. Seriously, seeing pleasure and ecstasy in someone's face is all I care about. What the fuck have I got? Male sexual pleasure sucks. I can have an orgasm with a straight face, what the fuck is up with that? That shouldn't be called an orgasm.
I don't think I have any fetishes that I'm aware of... but if my partner did I would probably go along with them.
I'll talk to my girlfriend about it if I want to; I can talk to me friends if I want to (I don't really), so yeah, I'm open. There's no reason to hide, it's just sex.
I'm as straight as straight can be.
I don't get pleasure out of my own pleasure unless it's directly connected to the pleasure of others. Ie. a handjob is interesting, but it does nothing to me. I think my last gf tried that until both her arms got tired. She gave up. But sex I like a lot because it's less about me getting pleasure and more about pleasing someone else. Seriously, seeing pleasure and ecstasy in someone's face is all I care about. What the fuck have I got? Male sexual pleasure sucks. I can have an orgasm with a straight face, what the fuck is up with that? That shouldn't be called an orgasm.
I don't think I have any fetishes that I'm aware of... but if my partner did I would probably go along with them.
I'll talk to my girlfriend about it if I want to; I can talk to me friends if I want to (I don't really), so yeah, I'm open. There's no reason to hide, it's just sex.
I tend to be fairly open with stuff. Was having a chat weighing up the pros and cons of things like 'the girl being on top' last night to a bunch of almost complete strangers, although I was kinda drunk at the time which helped.
In my experience, ejaculation and orgasms aren't necessarily tied together. Most people lump them into one thing, but I think that's the wrong approach. I've had both without the other, and while ejaculation is thrilling, orgasms are different beasts entirely. They're more difficult to achieve, though!Fluffles said:
TMI? Well, that's par for the thread, I think. Heh heh.
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To answer the original question: I'm fairly open. When the conversation steers toward sexy topics, I have no qualms with going as specific as is appropriate. That's a pretty rare occurrence, though.
im a perverted little girl and i always have been. Always nice to talk about sex and sexual stuff. Its always kinda gotten me going to talk. oh well. Im a very open girl.
Im resonably open, Im a straight guy, I have no problem with whatever sexual path people take in life but there are sometimes when I just dont want to hear any talk about sex at all.
I had a girlfriend at the start of 2011 and we got into a conversation about how we each lost our virginity, now while I was happy that she felt cofident enough to discuss this with me, i really didnt want to know how and who she did it with.
I had a girlfriend at the start of 2011 and we got into a conversation about how we each lost our virginity, now while I was happy that she felt cofident enough to discuss this with me, i really didnt want to know how and who she did it with.
I think Ive alrady said this here...I dont talk to anyone about it...at all, had a relationshop once which went about as well as my first playthrough of mass effect (not well at all)
[sub][sub] does liking "girl on girl"...if youre female make you gay? or like think about female charachters in that way...its probably just a phase[/sub] [/sub]
[sub][sub] does liking "girl on girl"...if youre female make you gay? or like think about female charachters in that way...its probably just a phase[/sub] [/sub]
I'm not open at all. I don't have a problem talking about it but everyone seems shocked to hear it from me. My friends and family think I'm pure and innocent so if I mention anything sexual it scares them because they find it so out of character. I wouldn't mind talking about it if they didn't stare at me like I grown a third eye.
Though I still wouldn't admit my fetishes to anyone not from the internet.
Though I still wouldn't admit my fetishes to anyone not from the internet.
Okay, well there is no way I can achieve one then. Because short of massaging the prostate (something I'm not going to do or have anyone do to me) ejaculation is all there really is. I mean there's not really anything else. I'm not going to have a different orgasm if I do it for an hour or a minute, it's all the same to me. I mean, varies slightly, but an orgasm? No it ain't.knhirt said:
Depends on who I'm with, and what the conversation is actually about. I'm fine with talking about sex and various related topics, but the trick is knowing your audience. If I was with my family, I wouldn't be having a conversation about the different poaitions and kinks that everyone has tried, because nobody would appreciate it and I doubt I'd be invited to the next get-together. But in a group of friends, I have no problem talking about anything, unless I knew that some of the group would be uncomfortable.
Basically, my openness in discussion depends entirely on my judgement of how comfortable the other people involved in the conversation would be.
Basically, my openness in discussion depends entirely on my judgement of how comfortable the other people involved in the conversation would be.