A lot of people say "The Mass Effect way" jokingly, meaning "have sex with everything remotely attractive to humans." But the real "Mass Effect way" is inspiring. In that game, humans are the new kid on the block, yet we learn extremely quickly and catch up with races that have been patrolling the stars for centuries before us. We learn from our mistakes, incorporate their technology seamlessly into our own, and master in decades what's taken other species centuries. The only regrettable part is the number of ethical lines that get crossed along the way (especially by Cerberus.)