DANGER- MUST SILENCE said:
I kind have to disagree here too, as a guy that has played alot of World of Darkness, the point of Vampire isn't really "Woe is me because I'm a vampire. With all of these advantages." Instead it is more like. "Woe is me, I live in a tyrannical monarchy and depending on how my particular clan fits into the world in relation to the King's people, well I'm either an outcast, hated (which can lead to heavy political pressure if you're lucky or just plain being murdered if you're not), and ignored.
Then to make things interesting they add a dash of "oh by the way, your clan also has character flaws" flaws that make you more likely to be attracted to certain types of things and depending on your moral alignment as a human being you suddenly might jump from being an average joe to being a horrific sociopath and people manipulator, a horrible disfigured monster that should never have contact with people, stark raving mad and violent with it, an animal in human skin just short of running down and chewing on the first little old lady you see, or you just become a super fascist with a highlighted copy of ‎Machiavelli's the Prince tattooed on your brain.
Also, you eat people. Sure you can choose not to kill them, but you still have to come to terms with attacking and victimizing them on a regular basis and on top of that some people are going to die anyway. On top of that you never know who is watching. Even if you spare the life of the feed basket of the night, what about the street kid wandering around alleys that might have saw you? If he gets away what are you going to do about him and the people he tells? This sort of thing is a violation of the Masquerade and depending on who is in charge that means they might just cut your head off and throw you in a ditch if they find out or you could murder a whole vagrant colony to save your own life. Are you the kind of person that is okay with that? You are a blood sucking monster, but even evil has standards or in WoD at least.
Sure you're immortal and have powers, but that guy whom basically is always King George-ing you at every turn is also and his powers are probably better or else he'd have been overthrown by some other equally horrible person with better powers and even less morals.
Going from what you said about your GM, though I figure it was less that the vampires are by and large terrible and de-fanged but more that your GM wasn't very good at letting you and your group explore all that it means to be a vampire in the WoD and instead it became politics the game...which honestly is always boring to me by itself.
I've had a game where while there were politics flowing, I as the owner of a particular territory had to deal with a cabal of serial killers haunting my nightclub while simultaneously kissing backside up the ladder to avoid close scrutiny both by the vampire "authorities" and the actual human ones. The murders while human enough, involved the victims being bled dry...so yeah the city's Prince wouldn't have been happy with that one a bit and being in charge I get to bite the bullet and handle it while glad handing him.
It is true that in Vampire you are stronger than a single human (for the most part *cough* Hunter *cough* Mage *cough* any other book that your GM wants to run parallel to your own), but that is sort of the point. Because that power tends to make you complacent and it hits much harder when you realize that even with super speed and telekinesis you really can't fight City Hall or much of human society at all for that matter unless you're willing to kick the Masquerade in the teeth and deal with the horrible horrible consequences later and maybe die anyway and take a lot of other people with you.
All of that was the long way of saying, I think it was your GM's fault you didn't really enjoy the game. You can just not like vampires sure enough, but there is nothing in the game rules that makes you a bunch of pretty emo kids and a friend of mine and I actually played twin brothers and used clan and ideological difference as sort of a deconstruction of one another's character. It was pretty fun.