How to help a grieving friend,

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tthor

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My good friend just found out that her really close friend/past relationship just died in a headon collision.
any tips, for how i can help her,
 

Insanum

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First off, Give her a hug, And give her your condolences (they're free, After all) and ask he if she's ok.

Its a start.
 

Roxas1359

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Comfort her and listen to her. Also don't mention about it unless she brings it up.
 

Vek

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Talk; offer to help her out with anything. Just making it known that you'll be there is the best thing, really.
 

teutonicman

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Strippers! ohh wait female....... Strippers! If she's not in to that then take her do something fun like go kar..... I mean a nice movie, something by pixar, perhaps kung-fu panda? Or a party/ event that lets you have a good time?
 

demoman_chaos

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Get here a puppy. A cute puppy will bring anyone's spirits up.
If no puppy can be found, kittens might work too.
 

Loop Stricken

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tthor said:
My good friend just found out that her really close friend/past relationship just died in a headon collision.
any tips, for how i can help her,
Is she in any way intelligent? If so, then nothing - she'll rationalise what you're trying to do and might think worse of you for it.
If she wants solace let her ask for it.
 

Insanum

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teutonicman said:
Strippers! ohh wait female....... Strippers! If she's not in to that then take her do something fun like go kar..... I mean a nice movie...
I see what you did there, And it was VERY funny.
 

tthor

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Loop Stricken said:
tthor said:
My good friend just found out that her really close friend/past relationship just died in a headon collision.
any tips, for how i can help her,
Is she in any way intelligent? If so, then nothing - she'll rationalise what you're trying to do and might think worse of you for it.
If she wants solace let her ask for it.
you sound like you're really full of yourself,

i'm sorry, but i'm in a poor mood, my friend is sobbing hysterically, and i just want to know any tips for how to help her get thru this,