Okay guys, here we go. After nearly a year of posting I have decided to actually make a thread on something that is a very apparent dilema with many members here.
Inspired by threads such as:
This one titled Why are you single?
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.169005
&
Mr. Bonsaik's quite excellent Relationship Problems Thread here
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=1
I have noticed the apparent lack of knowledge and understanding most guys here have of females. An example would be why a woman wears a V-cut blouse when she goes out and then vocalizes her displeasure when a guy keeps glancing at her chest when they are talking. Now think to yourself, how would you handle that as a guy, if you were in that exact circumstance? What would you say? How would you physically react? Do you even have a clue?
Women are a miasma of mixed signals and complexity that most outward genetalia bearers have zero understanding about.
Now having said that, I'm now going to tell you that I didn't make this thread to help you understand them.... nope, because you can't and never will..... however I did make this thread to assist you in your ability to catch a womans eye, and to isolate yourself from the everyday pack of men that are no doubt knocking on her door. You want to up your game? Well, I'm going to try and help you.
Some of you may be thinking, who the hell is this guy? Or, why should we listen to you? Or, what qualifies you to do this? And the answer to those are as follows; It doesn't matter I'm only trying to help, what do you have to lose, and finally.... I had a mentor of sorts on this very issue when I was younger and it helped immensely, he taught me alot of things which I have retained and improved on over the years and I feel I have reached the point where I can share them with others.
Now, THIS IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP THREAD, if you want relationship advice ask Bonsaik or make your own thread about it. This is more of a How to get the girl thread, for lack of a better term. Think the beginning steps.
What I do need on your part is;
1. A description of the scenario/situation (Brief as possible without leaving the key details out)
2. What kind of dude you are (what you are into, like your strengths & weaknesses, your romantic success rate, whether or not you are attractive.)
3. What type of girl she is (if you can provide that information, like how you know her and what she's into.)
And I will basically write down what I would do if I were in that situation, or will suggest what you should or need to do. Some of these scenarios could also be fictional if you chose, meaning you haven't been in that type of situation yet but are curious on what to do if it ever happens. Now, I am very aware that alot of you have opinions on certain things and are very set in your ways and may be thinking to yourself "I'm not going to change, why the hell should I do what this guy says, there's nothing wrong with me... it's everyone else." Well, whether that is true or not there was a post on one of the threads I mentioned above "If you keep doing what you have always done, then you will keep getting what you have always got", and let us not forget that one of the defining characteristics of insanity is doing the same thing over and over yet expecting different resluts each time.
So lets kick off this little expierement of mine here and try to help some of you come out of your shells. Also any input some of you ladies out there would like to add is more then welcome, either to tell me I'm a retard or that I'm in fact a genius and that these brave lads should take my advice to heart.
So feel free to ask me anything relevant to the topic at hand or even a few personal things about me related to the issues you wish to discuss. And if I come off a little harsh and call you a wuss or something, please don't feel bad, It's only tough love and I say it with your well being at heart.
And remember, just to clarify THIS IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP THREAD I wouldn't want to take Bonsaik's thunder.
Proceed..........
Inspired by threads such as:
This one titled Why are you single?
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.169005
&
Mr. Bonsaik's quite excellent Relationship Problems Thread here
http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=1
I have noticed the apparent lack of knowledge and understanding most guys here have of females. An example would be why a woman wears a V-cut blouse when she goes out and then vocalizes her displeasure when a guy keeps glancing at her chest when they are talking. Now think to yourself, how would you handle that as a guy, if you were in that exact circumstance? What would you say? How would you physically react? Do you even have a clue?
Women are a miasma of mixed signals and complexity that most outward genetalia bearers have zero understanding about.
Now having said that, I'm now going to tell you that I didn't make this thread to help you understand them.... nope, because you can't and never will..... however I did make this thread to assist you in your ability to catch a womans eye, and to isolate yourself from the everyday pack of men that are no doubt knocking on her door. You want to up your game? Well, I'm going to try and help you.
Some of you may be thinking, who the hell is this guy? Or, why should we listen to you? Or, what qualifies you to do this? And the answer to those are as follows; It doesn't matter I'm only trying to help, what do you have to lose, and finally.... I had a mentor of sorts on this very issue when I was younger and it helped immensely, he taught me alot of things which I have retained and improved on over the years and I feel I have reached the point where I can share them with others.
Now, THIS IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP THREAD, if you want relationship advice ask Bonsaik or make your own thread about it. This is more of a How to get the girl thread, for lack of a better term. Think the beginning steps.
What I do need on your part is;
1. A description of the scenario/situation (Brief as possible without leaving the key details out)
2. What kind of dude you are (what you are into, like your strengths & weaknesses, your romantic success rate, whether or not you are attractive.)
3. What type of girl she is (if you can provide that information, like how you know her and what she's into.)
And I will basically write down what I would do if I were in that situation, or will suggest what you should or need to do. Some of these scenarios could also be fictional if you chose, meaning you haven't been in that type of situation yet but are curious on what to do if it ever happens. Now, I am very aware that alot of you have opinions on certain things and are very set in your ways and may be thinking to yourself "I'm not going to change, why the hell should I do what this guy says, there's nothing wrong with me... it's everyone else." Well, whether that is true or not there was a post on one of the threads I mentioned above "If you keep doing what you have always done, then you will keep getting what you have always got", and let us not forget that one of the defining characteristics of insanity is doing the same thing over and over yet expecting different resluts each time.
So lets kick off this little expierement of mine here and try to help some of you come out of your shells. Also any input some of you ladies out there would like to add is more then welcome, either to tell me I'm a retard or that I'm in fact a genius and that these brave lads should take my advice to heart.
So feel free to ask me anything relevant to the topic at hand or even a few personal things about me related to the issues you wish to discuss. And if I come off a little harsh and call you a wuss or something, please don't feel bad, It's only tough love and I say it with your well being at heart.
And remember, just to clarify THIS IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP THREAD I wouldn't want to take Bonsaik's thunder.
Proceed..........