I think that if there are scholarships designed to get women into what are traditionally men's fields, then there should be scholarships to get men in to what are traditionally women's fields. Essentially that's equality there. Assuming that both groups meet the financial aid requirements.
Now for transgender people? Well there is a general need in the trans community for help with scholarships to get higher learning. But part of the reason for this is that transgender people often have issues with consistent employment, this is due to discrimination, there is also the fact that many trans people have families that refuse to help them. So assuming there is a system for this situation, how do you prove it? Well it can simple, a sub program where a gender specialized psychologist, or psychiatrist is offered by the school, if they decline the help you have a few possible scenarios: They already have a therapist already who is helping, are satisfied with that therapist, and this something easy enough to prove. They don't have a therapist, in this case most gender dysphoric people will jump at the chance, or at least would be willing to give said therapist a shot. Finally assuming they flat refuse to even consider see a therapist, period, then the you have a fairly straight foreword indicator of someone who isn't being truthful about being trans.
Such things can be incredibly difficult to define though, any such programs would get flack from all sides of the trans community, either for being too broad, or too narrow on definition of what defines being trans. For example, plenty of transgender people don't want sexual reassignment surgery, for whatever reasons, but still pursue other types of Gender Reassignment through other surgery and hormone replacement. There are many ardent transsexuals who believe that if you don't want, or/and get full sexual reassignment, then you're not trans, most don't adhere to this line of thought, but it's there in the community.
All said it'd be easy enough to find later if someone did "game the system" if they didn't transition, in which case I think they should have to pay back the scholarship with 100% interest on what they originally got, plus inflation. Honestly, I think that that rule should apply to all such scholarships, to prevent people from cheating their way into programs for disadvantaged people.
White Lightning said:
See shit like this is why this whole damned transgender thing is so goddamn stupid. You can't prove the guy isn't a trans women and if you say "oh well maybe he should only get it if he's got the surgery" they can just say they can't afford it. If you disagree or try to nay say you're oppressing them.
It's really quite amazing what these social justice groups have done, they've created a perfect... loophole? Is that the right word? You literally cannot question their nonsense without repercussions while the other person gets to do whatever they want.
As for your question, sure just give it to them. I'd imagine it would be hard to attach any kind of condition considering how dumb the situation is to begin with.
It's stances like these that cause people to think that Gender Reassignment treatments for gender dysphoria are purely elective, and that gender dysphoria are purely made up. Neither of which is true. In fact social justice groups have made things worse by trying to make gender identity totally unassailable, it does nothing to diminish the ignorance about the subject, nor lessen the hate. What it does do is make some people extra angry about the whole thing, causing them to cling harder to prejudices. Social justice groups may actually be making life more difficult for trans people, not easier, in this respect.
White Lightning said:
Nah, just personal experience. When I was in summer school a few years ago there was someone who looked like a women using the mens restroom, I asked what they were doing and it blew up in my face. I thought they were lost but no one even bothered to listen to my side of the story, I was just removed from the program. Maybe I'm a little biased but meh.
Define see a doctor? I always thought you could just waltz in to a plastic surgeon office and you were good to go.
Keep in mind that you're dealing with a group that particularly sensitive due to being marginalized and mistreated by society at large, this can cause massive resentment. Also if you mistake a guy for a gal, or visa versa most of the time they'll blow up in your face, this is regarding cisgender/non-trans people, not just trans people. Although being removed from the program out of hand was something of an extreme overreaction on the part of the people in charge, in my opinion. One would think an apology, maybe an explanation for both sides too, would suffice in such a situation.
Also you can't just walk in to a plastic surgery place and get sexual reassignment surgery(SRS), and many transgender people never get such surgery anyways for various, usually very personal reasons. Besides just to qualify for full SRS you need live as a member of the opposite gender for at least a year most places. It can take months of therapist visits just to get the recommendation to receive hormone replacement therapy(HRT), mind you just the recommendation, after which other tests, like blood tests need to be done. Hormone replacement therapy is a necessary first step for any further gender reassignment treatments. It's not just getting a boob job and vaginoplasty. Even then full sexual reassignment surgery isn't something all trans people opt to get, not getting sexual reassignment does not mean one has not transitioned, or that one is not transgender. In my case for example; my development on HRT, an orchiectomy, and little else is what it's taken for me to be happily transitioned, and I don't feel the need to do more. But each step I've taken has been difficult enough on it's own, each took a great deal of time just to start on for more than just financial reasons. I'm lucky that I got to start early, but each thing took a great deal of work just to get clearance and recommendations for. So no you don't "just waltz in to a plastic surgeon office and you're good to go."
I'm sorry that one particularly bad experience happened to you before and I'm sorry that it colors your whole opinion of trans people in general. I really wish that one experience didn't color your opinion of all trans people.