Face it, people don't all want to look the same, they can't possibly look the same, if you take issue with that, I think you're a dick.
There are any number of reasons for being fat, but regardless, you think just because the meat that makes up your body being slightly leaner means I should listen to you over a fat person?
Also, I am fat, pretty heavy, but it doesn't really show so I don't get many comments.
But, that doesn't matter, I'm unhealthy, but nobody ever notices, they only care if my appearance offends them, not about my health.
What I'm saying is, nobody really cares about how healthy I am, they just don't want to see if I jiggle or not and seeing as I don't jiggle about like a 40 stone Mcdonalds fanboy, I get no attention, even though I'm pretty sure, health wise, I'm in bad shape.