You'd have to elaborate considerably in order for me to fully understand where you're coming from, but I think I kind of get the gist of what you're saying nonetheless.
It would indeed shake up the industry if PS4 and Xbox One BOTH failed, but I'm sure you know as well as I that the chances of that happening are slim at best. The most likely outcome in fact is that both consoles will do well, with neither one dominating the other.
As for never listening, well yes you're right there. All that matters in the end to any company is their profit margins.
Gamers love to whinge and moan more than just about any consumer group, but what you must do if you dislike or disagree with something is simply boycott it. No use in complaining about something if you're routinely supporting it - that's hypocrisy on your part if nothing else.
Me personally, I plan on picking up a PS4 as soon as possible. Why? Because I want one, and I'm happy with Sony's approach in most cases.
I do not plan on buying an Xbox One because I detest Microsoft and the idea of them receiving my hard-earned money makes me feel physically ill.