I messed up! (relationship thread)
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Admit that you were wrong, and explain your way of thinking in the situation. Admitting your wrong goes a long way in something like this. You took things the wrong way and there was clearly a misunderstanding in what you were both saying.
apologize, possibly be called a dick a few times..... possibly several..... everyone moves on.
problem solved! im guessing you probably knew this and just wanted the internets to support you. dick.... yeah, get used to it now.
problem solved! im guessing you probably knew this and just wanted the internets to support you. dick.... yeah, get used to it now.
This young fellow is correct! Follow his advice!Jedamethis said:Say sorry, and explain the situation like you have just now.
Woo! I gave somebody advice which made sense
My advice
Don't beat yourself up over it. Shit happens. If it was just a little misunderstanding then you should be able to patch things up no problem. Just try not to repeat the mistakes that got you here in the first place.
Don't beat yourself up over it. Shit happens. If it was just a little misunderstanding then you should be able to patch things up no problem. Just try not to repeat the mistakes that got you here in the first place.
That's nothing. This one time I accidentally choked my young wife to death.
She was trying to talk me out of my newly acquired religious beliefs (telling me that I've changed, and she's scared of what I've become, etc) when I see the guy I used to work with get out of her vehicle! Of course, the only thought in my head is that she's been cheating on me with him, and I get in a fight with the guy. She tried telling me she didn't know he was in there, and that he snuck in or something, but I was sick of listening to her lies, so I choked her with one hand, but I didn't touch her, I swear! Anyway, I was pretty confident I could beat my old partner, but I guess I got too cocky and lost the use of my arms and legs. If it wasn't for my new boss, I'd be a burnt out corpse by now.
Bad news, though. Just as I woke up from major reconstructive surgery, my boss told me my wife died during childbirth. I was very upset. I joined this new religion just so I could keep her safe, but now...
Enough reminiscing for me. I've got this huge construction project I need to finish, and some dirty little thief stole the blueprints for it.
She was trying to talk me out of my newly acquired religious beliefs (telling me that I've changed, and she's scared of what I've become, etc) when I see the guy I used to work with get out of her vehicle! Of course, the only thought in my head is that she's been cheating on me with him, and I get in a fight with the guy. She tried telling me she didn't know he was in there, and that he snuck in or something, but I was sick of listening to her lies, so I choked her with one hand, but I didn't touch her, I swear! Anyway, I was pretty confident I could beat my old partner, but I guess I got too cocky and lost the use of my arms and legs. If it wasn't for my new boss, I'd be a burnt out corpse by now.
Bad news, though. Just as I woke up from major reconstructive surgery, my boss told me my wife died during childbirth. I was very upset. I joined this new religion just so I could keep her safe, but now...
Enough reminiscing for me. I've got this huge construction project I need to finish, and some dirty little thief stole the blueprints for it.
This made me laugh. I approve mightilyPaksenarrion said:
Nobody has the balls to be themselves when faced by the opposite gender?Woodsey said:
That most people refuse to change for others, doesn't mean they can't learn new ways to understand and accept the opinion of others without wrongly twisting their opinions into the negative facts you think they are.
Don't try to think for someone else or you'll be on a one-way trip to "self-fulfilling-prophecy-land".
So in short: You overreacted for sure; with an immature response.
And the fact that you want a relationship for the sake of sex won't get you anywhere soon, unless you tell that as the truth.
As any relationship, be it based on love or lust, won't last when built on lies.
Don't try to think for someone else or you'll be on a one-way trip to "self-fulfilling-prophecy-land".
So in short: You overreacted for sure; with an immature response.
And the fact that you want a relationship for the sake of sex won't get you anywhere soon, unless you tell that as the truth.
As any relationship, be it based on love or lust, won't last when built on lies.
Just apologize. People are reasonable, even women. [sub]Until it comes to gaming, most of the time.. *mutter*[/sub]
Yes, you were a jerk. You screamed at a woman because she politely asked, once, for you to act differently. Not right, man, no matter how mad you are.
My thought: Drop some money, girls love it.
My thought: Drop some money, girls love it.
you were being a jerk, there's no doubt about that. but try telling her that A: you are not getting rid of her B: your situation C: what you thought she meant D: that you're sorry for flying off the handle and quite possibly E: how you feel about her. E is optional, but it would really help the case of not getting rid of her. and if you really did feel strongly about her, i'm sure you'd be willing to change a few things here and there. not trying to sound like an ass, just saying.
I was more hoping for the part where you justified being an opinionless fool in the hope of getting some action.Woodsey said: