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xmetatr0nx said:
THEMILKMAN said:
NoMoreSanity said:
oliveira8 said:
I never got these threads...I'm not Dr. Phil or Oprah. Learn life by yourself!

Just forget about her anyway. Move on.
This in a nutshell, don't ask us about Love. We're gamers, we don't know about that stuff.
Yeah you're right what do you Ass Hats know about Love? Screw it, I'm just gonna go for it and play it by ear. I can't embarass myself that much because I'll probably never even see her again unless she wants to anyway.

Wow that was graceful. Look dont be surprised if people give you shit when youre coming online to get love advice. I could just as easily say that non asshats dont run to their computers for ideas on what to do about a girl. Or maybe you should just mellow out.
Nicely done
 

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THEMILKMAN said:
Onichanbura said:
You didn't give me enough information. Did you actually want to have a meaningful relationship with her, or just hook up? My answer would change drastically based on that info. Please don't judge me I could help you either way.
I'm hoping for something meaningful. I haven't had one of those in a while but I really think she's different.
Which is totally why you "kind of forgot about her", right?
Because you think you can have a meaningful relationship?
 

THEMILKMAN

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xmetatr0nx said:
THEMILKMAN said:
NoMoreSanity said:
oliveira8 said:
I never got these threads...I'm not Dr. Phil or Oprah. Learn life by yourself!

Just forget about her anyway. Move on.
This in a nutshell, don't ask us about Love. We're gamers, we don't know about that stuff.
Yeah you're right what do you Ass Hats know about Love? Screw it, I'm just gonna go for it and play it by ear. I can't embarass myself that much because I'll probably never even see her again unless she wants to anyway.
Wow that was graceful. Look dont be surprised if people give you shit when youre coming online to get love advice. I could just as easily say that non asshats dont run to their computers for ideas on what to do about a girl. Or maybe you should just mellow out.
Yeah, you make a valid point. But I've already asked most of the people I know for advice and they gave me the same answers for the most part. I guess I just wanted a second source of opinions.

Anywho, thanks for everyone's advice. I'm just gonna go for it, I'll PM her tomorrow but for now I gotta get to sleep.
 

teutonicman

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Right so you go up to her and ask "Hey when are you free?" followed by "Would you like to go out?" It's so simple it's genius.
 

THEMILKMAN

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Berethond said:
THEMILKMAN said:
Onichanbura said:
You didn't give me enough information. Did you actually want to have a meaningful relationship with her, or just hook up? My answer would change drastically based on that info. Please don't judge me I could help you either way.
I'm hoping for something meaningful. I haven't had one of those in a while but I really think she's different.
Which is totally why you "kind of forgot about her", right?
Because you think you can have a meaningful relationship?
Hah, yeah. I feel like an ass for that. I guess I just didn't feel the same at the time and I'm not 100% sure that I even feel that way now, but what do I have to lose? Wow, I kinda do sound a little like a dick don't I?
 

Berethond

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THEMILKMAN said:
Berethond said:
THEMILKMAN said:
Onichanbura said:
You didn't give me enough information. Did you actually want to have a meaningful relationship with her, or just hook up? My answer would change drastically based on that info. Please don't judge me I could help you either way.
I'm hoping for something meaningful. I haven't had one of those in a while but I really think she's different.
Which is totally why you "kind of forgot about her", right?
Because you think you can have a meaningful relationship?
Hah, yeah. I feel like an ass for that. I guess I just didn't feel the same at the time and I'm not 100% sure that I even feel that way now, but what do I have to lose? Wow, I kinda do sound a little like a dick don't I?
Yeah.
Just a little.
 

ErGo

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Man, by the amount of "help me with this girl" threads on here this place really needs a relationship help section in the forums or something...

OT: Too awkward, froget about her.
 

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ErGo said:
Man, by the amount of "help me with this girl" threads on here this place really needs a relationship help section in the forums or something...
Funny you should say that...

----> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=1 <----
 

ErGo

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BonsaiK said:
ErGo said:
Man, by the amount of "help me with this girl" threads on here this place really needs a relationship help section in the forums or something...
Funny you should say that...

----> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=1 <----
Well then ... problem solved I guess. Lets hope that thread gets used more ofthen then, it really needs a sticky or something.
 

quiet_samurai

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Just write her a message and say hi. It's pretty simple man, but don' act all shy and scared. Also don't bring up the fact you asked her out at first, let it wait until the right time.
 

BonsaiK

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ErGo said:
BonsaiK said:
ErGo said:
Man, by the amount of "help me with this girl" threads on here this place really needs a relationship help section in the forums or something...
Funny you should say that...

----> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=1 <----
Well then ... problem solved I guess. Lets hope that thread gets used more ofthen then, it really needs a sticky or something.
That'd be nice. I think most people don't know it exists. At the moment for every one person who uses my thread at the moment, there's about ten who start their own. I still reply to people's problems in my own thread though, just to keep it all in the one place.
 

ErGo

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BonsaiK said:
ErGo said:
BonsaiK said:
ErGo said:
Man, by the amount of "help me with this girl" threads on here this place really needs a relationship help section in the forums or something...
Funny you should say that...

----> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161?page=1 <----
Well then ... problem solved I guess. Lets hope that thread gets used more ofthen then, it really needs a sticky or something.
That'd be nice. I think most people don't know it exists. At the moment for every one person who uses my thread at the moment, there's about ten who start their own. I still reply to people's problems in my own thread though, just to keep it all in the one place.
Well, good luck with that.
Edit - 222 posts ... wow, such a distracting number ...
 

AbsoluteVirtue18

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Hell, go for it man. You never know, she might have been thinking about you for some time too, and then you'll meet by the train tracks and have a romantic moment where you both confess your undying affection for each other! Français aiment pâtisseries communisme bacon baies de sureau!

...Sorry, got off track somewhere. Don't normally go into French mode before Cajun accent mode.

Curse my hopeless romanticism.

Anyway go with what I said in the beginning.
 

AvsJoe

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scifidownbeat said:
SebZero said:
Michael_McCloud said:
SebZero said:
What is love?
Baby don't hurt me,
Don't hurt me,
No more.

I'm truly sorry, but you warranted this.
*sigh* Yeah.... I know....

I immediately regretted that question after I hit "Post."
Na, na, na-na-na, na-na, na, na-na-na, na- goddamit, I just got that song out of my head, too!
Same. Now I got quotes from Night at the Roxbury swirling around in my tired brain.
"Did you just grab my ass?"
"Sir, from where I'm standing, that's a physical impossibility."
"I know your tricks."
 

Aur0ra145

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Sing a song for her,

how about this one.


If that doesn't work (which I can't think of any reason it won't) stop everything with this girl.

Judging from past experiences my friends have gone through, I must say it never ends well. You'll tend to be much too envolved in everything, constanly reading between the lines and going mad.

Let's face it, you're too enticed with this girl to play the game. In other words, Women tend to not want what they can have easily.


In other words, try it quickly. If you don't see results in say 3 weeks drop it. Move on, don't waste your senior year on one broad.
 

Pegghead

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Look man, whenever a grl says "Maybe" or "I'll think about it" it means that they're just too nice to say no. Trust me I've been there. If I were you I'd just move on. (Sorry if this post makes me sound like a little emo ******)