i need assistance

[Fox1789]

i want to move out of my moms house.. cause im 20, i have a job and i can afford everything, but my mom is strongly against it, i love my mom so im worried about her being mad at me but at the same time everyone in my house drives me crazy... can some one give me advice

 

[Et3rnalLegend64]

Depends on if you think she can get over it soon enough. You don't want to make her feel bad. At the same time, you shouldn't be restricted just because they don't want you to go.

 

[DannyBoy451]

i want to move out of my moms house.. cause im 20, i have a job and i can afford everything, but my mom is strongly against it, i love my mom so im worried about her being mad at me but at the same time everyone in my house drives me crazy... can some one give me advice

Why do you need advice?

If you want to move, then move.

 

[azurawolf]

Oh I know the problem.

When I was 18, I moved out of my mom's house (even though I moved back 9 months ago but we are not going into that). My mom was dead set against it. Mainly because she hated my boyfriend at the time (who I was moving in with) and I didn't have a job. You have to do what you think is right though.

Yes my mom was pissed at me and didn't speak to me for a while but I did what I felt was right for me and I don't regret it.

Hope that helps!

 

[pantsoffdanceoff]

Wow, that's odd, if I stay in the house a year past my 18th birthday shes calling the cops... I'm sure she's kidding though... maybe.
Anyway you should leave sooner rather than later.

 

[Hazy]

Well, be happy that your mom loves you so much

I suppose moving out will be the best course of action. Just reassure her that you'll be able to visit her, and she can do the same. That might cheer her up.

 

[APPCRASH]

I moved out at 19. Never looked back. Just talking about it isn't going to get you out. Start looking for a place to rent right away, and start looking to the future.

 

[Aqualung]

Move out, but try hard not to estrange your mum. Reason with her, and gain her support- but if she's adamant against you leaving, then just get out.

 

[stonethered]

move out. if you want to and you feel ready too, than why should it matter if your mom doesn't want you too? what does your dad think? because if both your parents don't want you to leave than there may be something you haven't thought of.

 

[Fox1789]

well i got the place with 2 roomates

 

[thiosk]

Give her the ultimatum:

she pays for the prostitutes you'll need nightly,

or you move out so you can maintain a healthy relationship with another person.

The twentysomething who lives with their mom is well known to not date.

 

[cloudywolf13]

I haven't had to cross that bridge yet, but the way I see it, your mom shouldn't be trying to hold her twenty year old daughter back. You need to make her understand that you aren't a child anymore, even if you'll always be her child.

 

[Chrissyluky]

this is how mothers are just do it she will get over it eventaully.