I need some help (girl prob)

[renegade7]

Ok so I met this girl at the end of the school year last year and we got along really well. We only talked a little but it was really nice. But, derp, forgot to ask for her phone number. So I haven't heard from her in about 2 months. Anyway, about 2 weeks ago, I was asking a friend of mine about her (also a girl) and she said she's still single and had just gotten a facebook page and that I should send a message. I forgot to add her as a friend though. When I log in 3 days later I see she hadn't responded yet. I asked the mutual friend about it, and she thinks that sending a message without adding her as a friend looked a bit creepy. But after her not responding for three days, I worried adding her then would look desperate.

And it's not like I just walked up to her and got in her face when we were in school. I decided to because she kept showing up near my locker and she would always smile at me when we passed in the hall. The friend also said that she's really shy, and I can see that, she was rarely with her friends in school and she almost never smiled ( we had the same lunch hour and she sat kind of near me )

So it's been about two weeks now. Should I try friend-requesting her, or wait till school starts again in about 3 weeks?

 

[Mr. 47]

I'd say wait. Getting to know someone face to face would be more likely to get her interested in you. She could have a lot of messages, and it may have gotten lost. Don't get to excited, or worried about it though, a smile doesn't mean she loves you, and not seeing her doesn't mean she hates you.

 

[Berethond]

Maybe she's on vacation. You might as well just wait for school to start.

 

[Vamantha]

Do the smart non creepy thing and wait. Your friend is correct however. You should have sent a message along with a friend request. I personally never add anyone I don't know in person (well) unless they send me a message from where they know me from and even then their on thin ice. If you feel the sudden horrible urge. Just send her a message (not a friend request) telling her where you know each other from. You could also throw in "Sorry, for not sending a message along with my friend request. Was falling asleep, had an appointment, etc."