I need some help...
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Can't totally help here. It's mostly you do it or you don't I guess (which is much easier said than done if you're me) It was kinda cheating for me because she got curious one day and then everyone else did too. Put it off for a while, but eventually caved. I really didn't want to tell because she was taken at the time too. Didn't see the point in saying anything. (still single too)
If you plan on going through with it, good luck?
If you plan on going through with it, good luck?
Tell her you like her, simple. Most likely you will get your answer. There is a chance she wont say, for whatever reason, but I know if a guy likes me, Id rather he tell me instead of trying to find out if I like him. If I dont, I am not going to be rude, and no matter what, it kinda makes me feel good to know there are guys who like me out there.
People really need to stop looking for love advice on a gaming forum with an average age of like 16 or something....
Anyhoooo in my experience there's a little thing called playing hard to get which most of the fairer sex tend to engage in sometimes which could be what you're experiencing. Best course of action is always honesty, just tell her you like her. If she feels the same, great! If she doesn't move on. Just don't procrastinate. Time is a vital factor in these things.
Anyhoooo in my experience there's a little thing called playing hard to get which most of the fairer sex tend to engage in sometimes which could be what you're experiencing. Best course of action is always honesty, just tell her you like her. If she feels the same, great! If she doesn't move on. Just don't procrastinate. Time is a vital factor in these things.
Probably give you the gaming forum part, but we are still people, gamer-ness irrelevant.wewontdie11 said:
You may want to disregard advice from people under 18 or so though, not to say that there aren't younger people who are sufficiently mature to answer you. Vice-versa as well. Some college-aged people are truly idiots. Again, good luck. Hope you're not as insanely quiet as I am.
This guy may be on to something. Walk up to her and see if you can press a button to interact with her.624 said:
Really, I'd bet that if she acts like she doesn't like you for any period of time, she doesn't. You weren't too specific about how she acts, though.
Most of the time, I'll just think of the most ridiculous thing I can say to her and say it. I've found that the ones who still talk to me afterward are the ones I really like to be around anyway.
Walk up behind her whack her on the side of the head drag-
NO!
What I meant to say is be nice and just tell her.
NO!
What I meant to say is be nice and just tell her.
I'm not really sure why you like a girl that flits back and forth between liking you and not, but you might as well say something to at least stop and get off the crazy carousel of love.
Balls will get you everywhere. And let's face it, she can only say no and ridicule you to her friends. Secret of my childhood - when I was in highschool all the pretty girls were a complete waste of my time. Look outside of your place of education. If they're in the workplace, you shouldn't be trying.Knight Templar said:
Chloroform soaked rags are all the rage I hear. Plus actually talking to her, asking her etc. She will never say "I like you" because that would be too simple so you will have to make some moves Im afraid. Get her drunk is the other piece of advice, the truth comes out a bit more then and it can give you the dutch courage you need to just go for it. Plus if you are knocked back you can blame it on the alcohol.
Disclaimer: This advice in no way encourages what I suspect would be underage drinking.
Disclaimer: This advice in no way encourages what I suspect would be underage drinking.
How about not asking peoples advice on the internet.
Seriously, what is it with all the "There's this girl I like..." threads, they are multiplying like rabbits.
Seriously, what is it with all the "There's this girl I like..." threads, they are multiplying like rabbits.
Ok this stuff is what I am good at. This is what you do: First, go up to her and say you need to talk to her in private, then once you are in private look into her eyes and tell her how you feel. Believe me eye contact is very important. If she likes you too then ask her on a date. It's that easy, if you need more help let me know. If she says she is confused on how she feels about you then just tell her that you understand and that she can take as much time to decide as she needs. Then smile and give her a friendly hug and be on your way.
Press X to date?
Meh, just ask her. Tell her you like her, and that you'd like to know more about her. Ask her to a movie, or out for a milkshake, or whatever teens do these days. If she says yes, she likes you. If not, oh well, move on.
Opposed to what the poster above me suggests, don't hug her, especially if she's not interested. That's an easy way to get slapped down or accused of something inappropriate. I do agree about the smiling, tho i'd not go overboard with the big used-carsalesman grin.
If ya do get a date, congrats. Don't talk about yourself too much (you're better off asking her questions about whatever story she's just regaled you with), gaming is a topic you're better off avoiding unless she brings it up, or asks what your hobbies are, and finally DON'T STARE AT HER TITS.
Meh, just ask her. Tell her you like her, and that you'd like to know more about her. Ask her to a movie, or out for a milkshake, or whatever teens do these days. If she says yes, she likes you. If not, oh well, move on.
Opposed to what the poster above me suggests, don't hug her, especially if she's not interested. That's an easy way to get slapped down or accused of something inappropriate. I do agree about the smiling, tho i'd not go overboard with the big used-carsalesman grin.
If ya do get a date, congrats. Don't talk about yourself too much (you're better off asking her questions about whatever story she's just regaled you with), gaming is a topic you're better off avoiding unless she brings it up, or asks what your hobbies are, and finally DON'T STARE AT HER TITS.
Could try the time honoured classic of going through her friends.
Or you could ask/tell her, worst case scenario, she says she doesn't like you, never talks to you again, you become an object of ridicule throughout the school and eventually sink into a deep pit of depression and hatred.
You could ask/tell her, best case scenario, she does like you, you get together, have a few happy months before the novelty wears off, and suddenly you're just going through a routine, exchanging gifts and compliments but never really meaning them, until eventually one day you have the talk. See above for circumstances after the talk.
Good luck man, hope it works out.
(Yes I have just gone through a painful breakup, how could you tell?)
Or you could ask/tell her, worst case scenario, she says she doesn't like you, never talks to you again, you become an object of ridicule throughout the school and eventually sink into a deep pit of depression and hatred.
You could ask/tell her, best case scenario, she does like you, you get together, have a few happy months before the novelty wears off, and suddenly you're just going through a routine, exchanging gifts and compliments but never really meaning them, until eventually one day you have the talk. See above for circumstances after the talk.
Good luck man, hope it works out.
(Yes I have just gone through a painful breakup, how could you tell?)