Bit of a read but you'll probably enjoy =]
Right. I met this person [name Fran] 3 years ago. She was/is very quiet and I was just trying to make conversation at a party. I saw her again 2 weeks later and she apparently really enjoyed our 'conversation' and asked for my email address - for msn & facebook - I figured it couldn't hurt. After this she asked to meet up, so we did. I did all the talking, and I was drunk and went on about crazy tables.
After this she asked to meet me again, so we did. I was sober this time and she just asked about meeting again. And again. And again. And again. for 4 hours. She doesn't like music, or TV or cinema/movies, Eating out, Walking, Activities, Reading Books. Oh, and she believes in sex before marriage, which is worse because she's not really very attractive at all. I've got a Girlfriend and was never interested in her[fran].
I finally got ride of her and was very clear I didn't want to meet up again for the whole time.
She then started asking if I wanted to, the answer was no. For a year! I finally agreed to meet her and the meeting went the same as before. I really tried to give her a chance but I just couldn't get to know her. She just doesn't have anything to talk about.
so one note tune, then roughly a year ago, 2 years after meeting and having seen each other maybe 6-7 times she confesses her undying love for me. Baring in mind we haven't seen each other in a year and I'm constantly telling her to leave me alone.
so I meet her to tell her how it's a bad thing and how much I'm not interested in her etc - when I left I was telling her to 'fuck off and die' because she always wanted to 'talk about how I feel because I'm obviously confused.' :/
So I survived a year of her texting (can't block these), calling (barred) and a barrage of electronic - could call it warefare.
Then I thought I could be evil and maybe she'll stop, so I told her I was in clayock. She's from rainham in london. That's 650 miles - lots of busses and trains to get there.
http://maps.google.co.uk/maps?q=Rainham,+London+to+Clayock,+Scotland&saddr=Rainham,+London&daddr=Clayock,+Scotland&hl=en&sll=51.476251,0.278778&sspn=0.308349,0.615921&geocode=FVYUEgMd7f0CAClDxMFtM6XYRzEEL3kDNN7dBQ%3BFSDZfAMdEavL_ymr_nAQLMaaSDEID_qiAE5lkw&t=h&z=6
She calls me when she gets there and asks where I am. I say "I'm sorry, I forgot I'm actually in Brighton." 'Ok I'll come there shall I?' I think why not. "Ok sure. Let me know when you're here." 'Ok, bye.' I figure this is a long shot and she'll just leave me alone.
The next day - THE NEXT DAY!! she calls me. "Hi...I'm here, where are you?"
So, I know Brighton and I direct her to a park [seven sisters] ~20 miles from the station she's at. She calls me at 23:20, so she's got no chance of getting a train back at this time. "Hi, I'm here, are you sure you meant this place it's a field." 'Yes, I hate you, leave me alone.' "But I can't get the train back, you're always so mean to me." 'If I'm so mean leave me alone.' "No, because I know you don't really mean it." I hang up and turn my phone off.
the next day, I have texts, "please can I meet you?" So, obviously, she has to go west this time. I tell her I'm in birmingham and when she gets there I tell her I'm actually in cardiff. She has to spend another night in a strange place.
Then next day she texts me "You're soooo mean, but I forgive you! <3 Can we meet again?" So I tell her I'm actually in Paris. Which means that either this weekend or next she'll go there. :/ She'll have travelled just under 2000(!!) miles and spend almost £600 [~$800] on being stood up. How do I get her to leave me alone?!
I've blocked her from my email but I'm not changing my phone number, it's a contract and was too much hastle to change. After 3 years though, I'm thinking I might.
Short of physically assaulting her I've been as abusive as I can. Yet she still comes back for more!
Advice would be greatly appreciated
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Right. I met this person [name Fran] 3 years ago. She was/is very quiet and I was just trying to make conversation at a party. I saw her again 2 weeks later and she apparently really enjoyed our 'conversation' and asked for my email address - for msn & facebook - I figured it couldn't hurt. After this she asked to meet up, so we did. I did all the talking, and I was drunk and went on about crazy tables.
After this she asked to meet me again, so we did. I was sober this time and she just asked about meeting again. And again. And again. And again. for 4 hours. She doesn't like music, or TV or cinema/movies, Eating out, Walking, Activities, Reading Books. Oh, and she believes in sex before marriage, which is worse because she's not really very attractive at all. I've got a Girlfriend and was never interested in her[fran].
I finally got ride of her and was very clear I didn't want to meet up again for the whole time.
She then started asking if I wanted to, the answer was no. For a year! I finally agreed to meet her and the meeting went the same as before. I really tried to give her a chance but I just couldn't get to know her. She just doesn't have anything to talk about.
so one note tune, then roughly a year ago, 2 years after meeting and having seen each other maybe 6-7 times she confesses her undying love for me. Baring in mind we haven't seen each other in a year and I'm constantly telling her to leave me alone.
so I meet her to tell her how it's a bad thing and how much I'm not interested in her etc - when I left I was telling her to 'fuck off and die' because she always wanted to 'talk about how I feel because I'm obviously confused.' :/
So I survived a year of her texting (can't block these), calling (barred) and a barrage of electronic - could call it warefare.
Then I thought I could be evil and maybe she'll stop, so I told her I was in clayock. She's from rainham in london. That's 650 miles - lots of busses and trains to get there.
http://maps.google.co.uk/maps?q=Rainham,+London+to+Clayock,+Scotland&saddr=Rainham,+London&daddr=Clayock,+Scotland&hl=en&sll=51.476251,0.278778&sspn=0.308349,0.615921&geocode=FVYUEgMd7f0CAClDxMFtM6XYRzEEL3kDNN7dBQ%3BFSDZfAMdEavL_ymr_nAQLMaaSDEID_qiAE5lkw&t=h&z=6
She calls me when she gets there and asks where I am. I say "I'm sorry, I forgot I'm actually in Brighton." 'Ok I'll come there shall I?' I think why not. "Ok sure. Let me know when you're here." 'Ok, bye.' I figure this is a long shot and she'll just leave me alone.
The next day - THE NEXT DAY!! she calls me. "Hi...I'm here, where are you?"
So, I know Brighton and I direct her to a park [seven sisters] ~20 miles from the station she's at. She calls me at 23:20, so she's got no chance of getting a train back at this time. "Hi, I'm here, are you sure you meant this place it's a field." 'Yes, I hate you, leave me alone.' "But I can't get the train back, you're always so mean to me." 'If I'm so mean leave me alone.' "No, because I know you don't really mean it." I hang up and turn my phone off.
the next day, I have texts, "please can I meet you?" So, obviously, she has to go west this time. I tell her I'm in birmingham and when she gets there I tell her I'm actually in cardiff. She has to spend another night in a strange place.
Then next day she texts me "You're soooo mean, but I forgive you! <3 Can we meet again?" So I tell her I'm actually in Paris. Which means that either this weekend or next she'll go there. :/ She'll have travelled just under 2000(!!) miles and spend almost £600 [~$800] on being stood up. How do I get her to leave me alone?!
I've blocked her from my email but I'm not changing my phone number, it's a contract and was too much hastle to change. After 3 years though, I'm thinking I might.
Short of physically assaulting her I've been as abusive as I can. Yet she still comes back for more!
Advice would be greatly appreciated
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