Dandark said:
In Skyrim, I cannot help the blades with their messed up reasoning for why everyones favorite character has to die.
I also have trouble joining the stormcloakcs, I have a Nord character who I joined them with but they are so damn racist and wrong that I can't feel that good fighting for them. Fighting against them as the Empire however, then I feel like im fighting the good fight since im getting rid of the bigots.
Not going to blast your own take on it, but from my point of view the Nords have my sympathy.
The Nords are VERY traditionalist. They do things in honor of their ancestors at almost every level. This was challenged by the Imperials presence, which preferred progress over retaining history, which led to uneasy relationships before the war. When the war happened, and in the signing of the white-gold concordat, the Nords very own link to the "9" divines was made an illegal practice. The banning of Talos worship was the final straw, and such a massive insult to the very strong historical bonds the Nords have, that it just escalated to rebellion levels.
The Racism comes from seeing weakness in others. While that's not excusable, it's deliberately implemented to make no one side truly good. Regardless of how well Bethesda managed to convey this (not well) they wanted the war to be a lot less black and white.
The Thalmor, on the other hand, are basically TES Nazis, sooo... they didn't extend this grey area to everyone.
OP: In the Witcher, I came so close to siding with the Order of the Flaming Rose, after the fiasco at the bank. But when the one character that you could tolerate, who seemed like he could be more then the general bigoted mindset, decides to just blindly follow purely racist views, I had to pull out...
BUT, luckily for me, I had that option late in the game... unfortunately for me, I ended up with no allies. So I finished the game with odd sense of failure that didn't actually ruin my overall feelings about the game.