I wouldn't go out with you if..

[LorChan]

I don't mind short people, but I'm just not attracted to really thin people. Or fat people. I feel like half of women are rails and the other half are blobs - too few ladies have an actual shape to them, unless they really work at it (and I mean work, not starve themselves).
I even admit to being a bit on the blobby side, but the work is in progress to get fit.

 

[Something Amyss]

Beggars can't be choosers. as long as he is a guy, nothing matters anatomically.

Now if he's an asshole, on the other hand...

with a pitch like that, who could resist?

>.>

I don't really have many "off limits" deals either. My likes and dislikes are primarily personality driven.

 

[Aqualung]

Second that.

Also... I'm a tiny girl. I don't want guys that are A LOT bigger than me, be it height or weight, because I'm honestly afraid that they'll crush me. And I don't like feeling of being dominated to much either, of course I like it when my date can actually make decisions and I can in certain situations depend on them, but I want to be able to feel like I can also stand up to them if the situation calls for it.

I'm the same. I like a guy who is just comfortably taller than me (anywhere above 5'6" is good- I'm a couple inches over five feet) and, oddly, I really like a guy who is either very thin, or with a comfortable amount of chubby on the belly. For some reason, I'm just not attracted to really tall, really buff guys.

Hmm... I guess like Matt Bellamy. Yeah... Dreamy sighs commence.

 

[Something Amyss]

Haha Defender of what? Will dinosaurs and ninjas attack you guys out on a date or something?
I always tell my short friends that a man is only as big as his actions.

That's not normal?

 

[lvl9000_woot]

I don't like morons nor do I prefer women who are over (my weight + 30 lbs). I'm 5'8 and weigh 140lbs roughly. I DO like gamer girls and anime lovers.

I'm hoping to find someone who is into cosplay, writing, art, music, movies, etc.

...any girls here live in the midwest?

 

[lvl9000_woot]

Second that.

Also... I'm a tiny girl. I don't want guys that are A LOT bigger than me, be it height or weight, because I'm honestly afraid that they'll crush me. And I don't like feeling of being dominated to much either, of course I like it when my date can actually make decisions and I can in certain situations depend on them, but I want to be able to feel like I can also stand up to them if the situation calls for it.

I'm the same. I like a guy who is just comfortably taller than me (anywhere above 5'6" is good- I'm a couple inches over five feet) and, oddly, I really like a guy who is either very thin, or with a comfortable amount of chubby on the belly. For some reason, I'm just not attracted to really tall, really buff guys.

Hmm... I guess like Matt Bellamy. Yeah... Dreamy sighs commence.

I can has date?

 

[The Unworthy Gentleman]

I don't go out with uggos.

Call me shallow but appearance is an important part of society, you can't judge me for judging other people; that would make you a hypocrite.

 

[scorptatious]

I would say I wouldn't date someone who weighs more than me, but considering that I'm almost literally a twig, I'd probably set my standards up a little too high.

EDIT: Yay! 300th post!

 

[Thebiggestpanda]

Haha Defender of what? Will dinosaurs and ninjas attack you guys out on a date or something?
I always tell my short friends that a man is only as big as his actions.

That's not normal?

I don't know about you but it isn't for me. I get a lot more pirates asking for trouble than ninjas.

I joke about her defender comment because the average dude isn't gonna know shit about fighting.

 

[Jharry5]

I don't usually mind too much about physical stuff. I guess if a girl was taller than me though (I'm 5'7"), that would be the only exception. I don't exactly know why, but I'd prefer going out with someone who was roughly the same height as me.

 

[lacktheknack]

I don't date girls who A. smoke (asthma issues, plus it smells and tastes terrible) or B. have junk (no explanation required).

 

[Assassin Xaero]

So escapists, is there a physical trait that if a person has, you wouldn't go out with them? or is there a trait like height at a certain limit, you wouldn't go out with?

Not really physical, but I wouldn't ever go out with someone that smokes or does other drugs, and right now, that drinks or has kids (since I still find having kids around 20 is just wrong). One girl did once say she couldn't go out with me because I wasn't a christian. Height though, I am short (5'4), but as long as a girl wasn't like a foot taller or something where it would just be physically awkward, I wouldn't really care.

 

[Imp Poster]

I have met couple of girls that wouldn't go out with me because I was too short.

Hey, at least they just straight up told you that. They didn't want to admit it when I asked, I think it's because they like to think they're not equally as shallow as guys.

Well, those are the ones that I know. Who knows how many there were that didn't say it.

 

[Something Amyss]

I don't know about you but it isn't for me. I get a lot more pirates asking for trouble than ninjas.

I joke about her defender comment because the average dude isn't gonna know shit about fighting.

I'm in the only landlocked state in New England. Not many pirates.

 

[Lerasai]

I don't really date since I was born with skin so pale and freckled that I am invisible to men. But, if ever there were a guy immune to my powers of disguise I probably wouldn't date him if he... who the hell am I kidding? I'm an a-cup, I have to take what I can get.

 

[Monkfish Acc.]

I refuse to go out with anyone ever. Mostly because the whole concept of love bewilders and disgusts me.
Also I might end up being forced to have sex with someone, which would be the most awful thing.

EDIT:

I don't really date since I was born with skin so pale and freckled that I am invisible to men. But, if ever there were a guy immune to my powers of disguise I probably wouldn't date him if he... who the hell am I kidding? I'm an a-cup, I have to take what I can get.

Wait wait wait, hold the bloody phone.
So what you are saying is you are pale, freckled and have an a-cup, and this is why guys don't like you.
I'm going to have to call bullshit here. No offense.

There is a whole fucking section of men who prefer small breasts. Not even talking weird fetish section, like being into chubby people or whatever. I would estimate maybe fourty percent of men nowadays find larger sizes dull.

And let's not get into the pale and freckled thing. I want you to go into one of those "perfect woman" type threads that used to pop up everywhere. They're not around much anymore, but head right on up there towards the search bar and you will find so many you will be passing them around like cheap cigars by the time the day is done. Read through and see how many people yearn for a porcelain lady.

Seriously. You have nothing to complain about, believe me.

no i am not hitting on you

 

[Not-here-anymore]

I refuse to go out with anyone that doesn't have a head. I know, I know, it sounds insensitive but that's just the way I am damn it!

You shallow bastard! Clearly just interested in women in hope of a blowjob. You make me sick, and you made my headless sister cry. Or whatever the equivalent is for someone with no tear ducts. Or eyes.

I don't have any real limits on girls physically, provided they're not too much taller than me, (which, at 5'5", can be a problem...)although certain levels of unattractiveness will cause my shallow side to kick in.
Don't think I could go out with any girl more arrogant than myself, though. Or one totally lacking in self-confidence. And, from past experience, no crazy paranoid girls (to the point where I couldn't so much as mention another girl's name or the Spanish Inquisition would appear. Bad times)

 

[niege]

I don't really date since I was born with skin so pale and freckled that I am invisible to men. But, if ever there were a guy immune to my powers of disguise I probably wouldn't date him if he... who the hell am I kidding? I'm an a-cup, I have to take what I can get.

I do not want to see you as a sience experiment but that seems like an interesting skintone And now i feel retarded for trying to pick up girls on a website...

Edit:I do like difference not like a my friends average height brown/Blonde hair big boobs a firm butt girls i like nerdy girls who can kick my ass in videogames like manga and...you get the picture. so yeah normal is the reason i dont date people.

 

[Valkyira]

I wouldn't even think about going out with someone who can't spell properly. Even in texts, if they talk like "Yo, sup hun, wot u up 2 l8r?" They basically need to piss off. I hate people who can't spell or are too lazy to just include a few extra letters to spell the words correctly.

 

[Knusper]

I don't know any woman who is taller than me; I'm well over 6 foot, so I don't have a problem with girls being taller than me, although I don't think I'd care that much anyway. Girls being small don't bother me either to be honest. Now a real turn-off for me is if I find out a girl smokes, my older brother smokes heavily and I don't see how his girlfriend stands it.