When I play with friends we usually laugh when people kill us and say "Oh man, I'm gonna kill you." That's all in good fun and I never say it into the mic. If more people learned this there'd be less games where I'm called a ****** for playing the demoman. Or even better when I was playing sniper and some guy who had no idea what he was talking about told me to go eat some kangaroos cause the sniper's (and also OBVIOUSLY me) aussie. Fuck, when people decide they know what race you are from how or what you play. The whole online thing becomes a turn off. I miss wholesome trash talk that wasn't racist or offensive to at least two different religions.