I'm having a really hard time finding a romance anime I'd enjoy. Any help in that regard?

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Dryzdale said:
Shuumatsu Nani Shitemasu ka? Isogashii desu ka? Sukutte Moratte Ii desu ka? (WorldEnd): [https://myanimelist.net/anime/33502/Shuumatsu_Nani_Shitemasu_ka_Isogashii_desu_ka_Sukutte_Moratte_Ii_desu_ka]
A little bit of sci-fi/fantasy blend of a setting, might infringe a little on points 1 and 5, depending on your view point. But I loved this show, not sure if there'll be a sequel or a spinoff or anything (aired mid 2017), but I think it ended on a definite point.
The setup sounds pretty interesting. I guess I can forgive the presence of the tropes to a certain extent, as long as the show doesn't depend on them. I'll add it to my list.

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Plastic Memories: [https://myanimelist.net/anime/27775/Plastic_Memories]
More sci-fi setting, its a little bit slice of lifey at times. Characters are generally well rounded, though again it might infringe a little on the points you don't like.
The concept of robotic (or generally otherwordly) love interests is something I'm very fond of, but I kinda wish they'd stop relying on the cliche that the android only has a certain amount of days left till it dies and/or is a threat to the world and has to be eliminated (Chobits, anyone?). It always relies on cheap melodrama and while it may set up a cute romance along the way, it's all going to go to waste anyway because of the love interest inevitably dying at the end, making the entire show pointless. I doubt this case is going to be different, considering it has literally the same premise as all the other manga/anime about that topic before it.
 

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On the whole, I would say VN's would offer far more romance than anime would and I am watching this thread in hopes I'm dead wrong and people start mentioning things that actually are good romance anime instead of garbage because unfortunately that's all I've seen.
You're calling Chuunibyou trash? You need to justify this statement right now. Use spoiler tags.
 

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I'll second the recommendation for Clannad. I don't know how the anime compares to the VN and I imagine VN might well be better, especially given it's the source material, but the anime itself was enough to make me cry a bit here and there.

And I'm not even ashamed to admit it.

Other than that, Kuragehime might be up your alley. I hadn't watched it recently, and I'm pretty sure there's no intimacy, I'm also not sure if there was enough development for point #5, but all in all, it's good, solid fun, with characters veering very far away from the tropes described in the point #1.

Kimi ni Todoke might also work out, again, I hadn't rewatched that since seeing the original run, meaning my recollections are marred by the caustic mists of time and given it's a highschool romance with underage leads you'd better believe they're keeping it chaste, but it should meet the remaining criteria.
 

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@Ugicywapih

Thanks for the recommendations, but I don't think they're what I'm looking for. You see, romance without any sort of intimacy is pretty common in anime and it really bothers me. I really want to find something that breaks out from that and those two simply don't do that. Not to mention, Kuragehime is one of those romances that don't end up anywhere (or at least you're portraying it as such), which is a thing I simply can't look past.
 

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I have two recommendations:

1. Ah! My Goddess. This is an old classic, and has a few adaptations available. The best I can say about it is that the characters are all in university (aside from Skuld) and more or less act appropriately if a bit eccentric at times. Wonderful music too.

2. Please Teacher. This one I enjoyed a great deal, but if the hook loses then abandon it: it's about a romance between a male student and a female teacher. Who is also an undercover observer of an advanced alien race. And he knows that. The age issue is avoided with our MC having been in a coma for three years after his 15th birthday - though its more like suspended animation since he hasn't aged. This one has a fair whack of fan service, but at the same time wasn't shy about the two having a consummated relationship - indeed the OVA skirts so close to the line you'd expect it to be a pornographic oneshot.
 

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Ranma 1/2... I believe it meets all of your required points...

[sub][sub][sub]HAHAHA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAA[/sub][/sub][/sub]
 

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Drathnoxis said:
Jerast said:
On the whole, I would say VN's would offer far more romance than anime would and I am watching this thread in hopes I'm dead wrong and people start mentioning things that actually are good romance anime instead of garbage because unfortunately that's all I've seen.
You're calling Chuunibyou trash? You need to justify this statement right now. Use spoiler tags.
I approve of how much you seem to have gotten into Chuunibyou.

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I'll be honest and say I don't really know many full on romance anime, but here are some recommendations where I liked the romance in them.

I think Highschool DxD ticks every item on your list.

1) Whilst Issei is quite dense he's definitely not shy or a nerd. He is defiantly a massive anime style pervert though.
2) There is defiantly a connection between Issei and Rias, right from the first episode really.
3) Issei's only goal in life is to get intimate with Rias. It does take some time before he actually gets anywhere though.
4) There are periods where the focus is away from Rias and on other girls, but those girls either belong to Rias or probably will do at some point, so him helping them out is helping Rias out too.
5) If we're just talking about the first series, just to get you in to it, the ending is quite good in my opinion. There are currently 3 series out and the 4th is supposed to be coming out this year.

Ok, a more serious answer: Golden Time.

This one is one of the few romance anime I've actually watched[footnote]well I read, but there is an anime of it. I'd also kind of recommend Evergreen by the same author, but I don't think that has an anime.[/footnote].

The first thing I really liked about this one is that its not set in a high school, its at a university. The setting allows for things that you wouldn't see between two high school students, for example they'll go out drinking and they live more independent lives.

To avoid any spoilers I'll just describe the start of it so you can get a general idea. The main character is just starting his first day of uni when he gets lost and bumps into another guy who is also starting in the same class as him, they get along and help each other get to class. As they're going to class a woman steps out in front of them with a bouquet of flowers and slaps his new friend across the face with them.
The main character instantly falls for this girl as she explains that she is the fianc?e of his new friend, a claim he denies. After a bit of discussion it turns out the guy had made a promise to her when they were kids that they'd get married and she has stuck to it his whole life, basically ruining his relations with everyone else and planning out exactly what they'll be doing and when for both their lives forever. He decided to come to this university after telling her he was going to a different one purely so he could get away from her.

I like this because the main character is basically in love with his friend's stalker and he kind of knows that she's only hanging around with him to get to his friend but he feels sorry for her because she clearly has no other friends and so he keeps hanging around with her, despite the warnings from his friend.

Steins;Gate. Another one that isn't really a romance anime, but it is one of my favourite anime and I like the way the relationship develops between the two leads[footnote]Though I prefer his relationship with the childhood friend in the visual novel[/footnote]. It doesn't stick to the points you asked for exactly, but as I said its one of my favourite anime so I'd feel bad for not recommending it.

The story is that the main character is a self proclaimed mad scientist[footnote]Note: he is just a nerd[/footnote] and he is attending a serious lecture on time travel. He meets a girl, Kurisu, who is also there for the lecture and basically starts annoying her with his childish proclamations of being a mad scientist.

After the lecture he leaves, but has to go back because his friend dropped something and finds the dead body of the girl he was just arguing with. In a panic he texts his assistant back at his 'lab' and suddenly everything changes. He meets the girl he just saw dead again and after determining she's not a zombie he leaves confused.

To cut a long story short, it turns out that he accentually invented a time machine when he was trying to build a microwave that could be operated by text. Kurisu follows him back to the lab out of curiosity about his raving about her being a zombie and together they try to work out how/why the time machine works and if they can actually get any practical use out of it, Kurisu adding actual scientific knowledge to the task.

 

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@Gordon_4

Both sound like something I might enjoy. I'll add them to my list. Thanks.

@Drathnoxis

I dunno. I remember watching some other romance adapted from a Rumiko Takahashi manga - Maison Ikkoku. It fell victim to pretty much every trope I described in the OP, save for the girl being a tsundere. Also boy did it drag out. I think I dropped it after 20 episodes because the relationship between the main characters was pretty much just going from one misunderstanding into another, without any sort of development happening. Would you say Ranma is any different in that regard?
 

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Bobular said:
Highschool DxD


Bobular said:
Ok, a more serious answer: Golden Time.
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The first thing I really liked about this one is that its not set in a high school, its at a university. The setting allows for things that you wouldn't see between two high school students, for example they'll go out drinking and they live more independent lives.
That factor certainly makes the whole thing more appealing. I'm tired of anime setting those romances in school and then going out of its way to think up something for the characters to do for fun apart from homework and bumbling about in school that's not illegal so they can show it on prime time TV, with results usually being the same tropes, such as a beach episode or a summer festival episode, being repeated ad nauseam.

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To avoid any spoilers I'll just describe the start of it so you can get a general idea. The main character is just starting his first day of uni when he gets lost and bumps into another guy who is also starting in the same class as him, they get along and help each other get to class. As they're going to class a woman steps out in front of them with a bouquet of flowers and slaps his new friend across the face with them.
The main character instantly falls for this girl as she explains that she is the fianc?e of his new friend, a claim he denies. After a bit of discussion it turns out the guy had made a promise to her when they were kids that they'd get married and she has stuck to it his whole life, basically ruining his relations with everyone else and planning out exactly what they'll be doing and when for both their lives forever. He decided to come to this university after telling her he was going to a different one purely so he could get away from her.
Well, the girl seems more like an official case of being a nutjob rather than being violent purely because she's an anime character, so kudos to them. Does she have those kinds of outbursts very often, though? Because if she does, then it doesn't really make her any different from any other typical female character from a romcom anime.


Bobular said:
Steins;Gate
I've seen this anime being mentioned quite often, but I've never really gotten around to actually giving it a try. Now's as good of a time as any. I'll add it to my list. Thanks.
 

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Jerast said:
I'm going to be real with you, nearly all romance anime is absolute trash.
This, except for Princess Mononoke of course. Now that's a lady,


Actually speaking of Miyazaki, you could do worse than The Wind Rises. Reading through your list of don'ts, I found myself realising that movie actually passes all those tests.


 

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Ezekiel said:
Rose of Versailles is my personal favorite. The characters are adults. It's historical, part tragedy, shoujo. The romance doesn't feel so fake. I know you're not gonna watch it, though. It's not new and shiny.
Nice insinuating you did there, buddy. I specified that any year is fine and even mentioned I watched Maison Ikkoku in the thread, which is an anime from the mid 80s. Hardly "new and shiny" if you ask me.

As for your suggestion, it sounds kinda interesting. I'll give it a go.
 

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Well, the girl seems more like an official case of being a nutjob rather than being violent purely because she's an anime character, so kudos to them. Does she have those kinds of outbursts very often, though? Because if she does, then it doesn't really make her any different from any other typical female character from a romcom anime.
She does do it occasionally, but I think its handled quite well. She asks the main character for help at one point as she knows what she's doing is crazy and is actually pushing the other guy away but she can't help her self when she sees him even talking to another girl.
 

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@Drathnoxis

I dunno. I remember watching some other romance adapted from a Rumiko Takahashi manga - Maison Ikkoku. It fell victim to pretty much every trope I described in the OP, save for the girl being a tsundere. Also boy did it drag out. I think I dropped it after 20 episodes because the relationship between the main characters was pretty much just going from one misunderstanding into another, without any sort of development happening. Would you say Ranma is any different in that regard?
Nah, I was joking with that one. You missed the white text. It fails every one of your points. I really like the show and think it's hilarious, but a good romance it is not. And it has the worst ending. If you want lighthearted comedy, Ranma's a good choice, if you want development noooooooooooooooooooooo.
 

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She does do it occasionally, but I think its handled quite well. She asks the main character for help at one point as she knows what she's doing is crazy and is actually pushing the other guy away but she can't help her self when she sees him even talking to another girl.
Looks like they really thought that out, then. Might be interesting to watch. I'll add it to my list. Thanks.

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Nah, I was joking with that one. You missed the white text. It fails every one of your points. I really like the show and think it's hilarious, but a good romance it is not. And it has the worst ending. If you want lighthearted comedy, Ranma's a good choice, if you want development noooooooooooooooooooooo.
Good thing you specified that. I don't know romance anime all that well, so while I can do research about the titles you're giving me to a certain extent, I'm still mostly taking your suggestions at face value, trusting you know what you're talking about.

Also, I'd like to say that I think I've got more than enough recommendations to last me a while, so no more is needed. I'd like to thank you all for providing me with such amazing help. I really didn't expect this request to go so well.
 

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Never been a romance anime fan so probably not gonna be much help but the only 2 I have enjoyed were Spice and Wolf (which does not end conclusively) and Vandread ( which is not really a romance series but atleast had a logical if a little silly reason why the characters don't just hook up).
 

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Let me also add my recommendations for Onegai Teacher and Kareshi Kanojo no Jijou to those others who have already mentioned these two gems. Kare Kano in particular because it explores various relationships with varying degrees of health. The main couple get together quickly but within their circle of friends, no less than 2 other couples form during the course of the show each with their own quirks. The manga stretches this out by a further 2.

One good romance I can name, that is also an ensemble cast, is Hachimitsu to Clover (Honey and Clover). Relationships that cling to the past. Relationships that stem from admiration. Love triangles where 2 of the 3 people are hard to read. The anime is a slice of life ostensibly but at its heart, romance is what drives the show.

If you want a parody of the regular romance anime and its tropes, check out Love Lab. Might not be your romance fix but I hope it will make you laugh.

Two romances from the wayback machine I can name are Miyuki and Kimagure Orange Road. The former follows a similar plot to Marmalade Boy but with a heavier focus on romance. A stepsister returns from a long stint abroad and her (unrelated by blood) stepbrother struggles with his growing feelings for her. Kimagure Orange Road is a love triangle between a man with secrets, the moody delinquent he fell for and that delinquent's best friend. The delinquent, Madoka, is supposedly the prototype Tsundere before the Tohsaka class perfected the archetype. If these sound like anime cliches to you, it is because these two anime were the ones that helped popularize them in the first place. Give it the old 3 episode watch if only to see why these tropes became so popular. Given that these were the originals, they do have much more depth than some of their successors so maybe they might suit you.
 

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@Mechamorph

Thank you for the recommendations. Both Hachimitsu to Clover and Miyuki sound like something with potential. I'll add them to my list. As for Kimagure Orange Road, I think I'm going to skip it cause while those characters might be a little bit more fleshed out, the archetype base is still there, and it's that base that annoys me.
 

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Also, I'd like to say that I think I've got more than enough recommendations to last me a while, so no more is needed. I'd like to thank you all for providing me with such amazing help. I really didn't expect this request to go so well.
Better put that in your OP if you don't want off and on recommendations for like a month.