I'm so confused...

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SpectacularWebHead

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So I'm 16, and I've met a really nice girl. I met her at comiccon, We get on really great, we like the same stuff, our sense of humour is pretty much the same, we're really similar personalities, and I feel a connection to her. I haven't known her properly for very long, but I love seeing her, and we get on pretty great.

My only problem is, She's older than me by quite a bit, there's a six year age gap. I should clarify though, in case anyone thinks this is a dodgy situation, She hasn't made any kind of move on me, she hasn't suggested anything dodgy, nothing like that at all. All the attention and stuff is totally on my side, but I haven't expressed how I feel at all.

Now, the reason I'm confused is, I don't know what to do. She is everything I want in a partner, but she's older than me and I don't even know if she's interested. And if she were, would that be bad? The other part of confusion is that I've had crushes on people before, and I know what they're like. But this is noticeably different. When I have a crush, I avoid the person I have a crush on because I get embaressed and shy etc, but I want to see her, and just chat about nothing in particular, because She's hilarious and I feel comfortable around her.

I don't know what to do. Should I say anything, or leave it, or what? I got nothing at the moment, help would be appreciated.
 

Batou667

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BloatedGuppy said:
SpectacularWebHead said:
And if she were, would that be bad?
It would be statutory rape.

So...yes. It would be bad.
16 is legal in the UK. It's aaaaaall good.

Anyway, I'd say if she hasn't made any signs of being interested, then she may well just see you as a friend. Get to know her better before you bare your feelings to her - and you may even find your own feelings toward her changing. Take it slowly and just enjoy having a crush for now.
 

manic_depressive13

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Six years is a huge gap considering your age groups, and I imagine most adults would feel pretty uncomfortable dating someone who's still in high school. You might be legal but you're still just a kid with no life experience.

Then again she could be the kind of person who isn't bothered by that. There's only one way to find out.
 

hazabaza1

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Half her age plus 7 keeps you out of there.
That's just my rule until you reach 18, then go fuckin' wild.