Let's face it, all of us have an ideal mate in mind (Kylie) and game ARE fantasy. And not just for us, but for the Babes/Beefs themselves.
Let's face it - for those people - they get paid to strut about in uniforms, like most of us do, but they get - well, I won't call it respect, but you get the idea.
And for those Babes/Beefs that actually get into character... The only people who are suffering are those poor fools that get jealous.
In fact, I think I did a poll last year: http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/9.74019