Call me old fashioned, but at age 5 to 7 I myself would absolutely stick to the bees and flowers thing. Eventually upgrade to chicken and eggs and Mr. Rooster. Definitely not before 10 to 12 to do the hard talk about penis -> vagina business. In my own experience, pets also help. Maybe not snails or all-female tiny lizards that clone themselves, but anything that comes in male/female form tends to help, anything like guinea pigs or rats is a blast to have around when you want innocent animal shagging that's fit to be consumed by inquisitive kids. I recommend staying away from turtles, as their sex talk is bound to give kids nightmares and ruin any relationships with neighbours.
We've had some... experiments in our educational system over here, mostly on a personal and unofficial level by people taking their own convictions as the moral compass and doing thing their way with other people's children, and it's causing a hell of a lot of headache for everyone involved, and the kids either still don't give a damn about it (as, methinks, they should) or they get way too interested in it, which seems to have given a boost to the local shrink industry, with some rather unfunny cases of social services blaming the parents, when it was in fact daycare and kindergarten folks that thought it was a good idea to just give it a go.
Since it's her own children we're talking out of our asses about here, she herself should be perfectly capable of assessing the situation. Let her ponder on it for a while and, hey, as a friend, why not discuss things over with her, letting her bump her ideas and thoughts off you so you'll be able to bring a bit more of the fun stuff to these here forums.
I'm also a fan of letting mommies do the talk with their daughters and daddies do the talk with their sons, while questions the kids may have have to be handled by both parties in a consistent, coordinated manner. Same goes for daddy/daddy, mommy/mommy or maddy/dammy combos. Not a winner in today's anything goes approach to gender and sexual identity and the rampant intolerance towards more conservative views, but, hey, not everyone considers zirself to be amongst the knowitall princes and princesses of the universe.
We've had some... experiments in our educational system over here, mostly on a personal and unofficial level by people taking their own convictions as the moral compass and doing thing their way with other people's children, and it's causing a hell of a lot of headache for everyone involved, and the kids either still don't give a damn about it (as, methinks, they should) or they get way too interested in it, which seems to have given a boost to the local shrink industry, with some rather unfunny cases of social services blaming the parents, when it was in fact daycare and kindergarten folks that thought it was a good idea to just give it a go.
Since it's her own children we're talking out of our asses about here, she herself should be perfectly capable of assessing the situation. Let her ponder on it for a while and, hey, as a friend, why not discuss things over with her, letting her bump her ideas and thoughts off you so you'll be able to bring a bit more of the fun stuff to these here forums.
I'm also a fan of letting mommies do the talk with their daughters and daddies do the talk with their sons, while questions the kids may have have to be handled by both parties in a consistent, coordinated manner. Same goes for daddy/daddy, mommy/mommy or maddy/dammy combos. Not a winner in today's anything goes approach to gender and sexual identity and the rampant intolerance towards more conservative views, but, hey, not everyone considers zirself to be amongst the knowitall princes and princesses of the universe.