I'm not shy, and I'd say I have a decent self-confidence, but I'm still terrified of rejection.. Does that sound contradictory?lRookiel said:I have an irrational fear of rejection, which contributes to my shyness an awful lot.
Your an evil bastard, but luckily I only eat them fried, and only strips of fish. No sardine's or tuna.Amethyst Wind said:You're very trusting in the people who cook your food. What if the fish isn't quite dead yet when you're putting it in your mouth? Perhaps your tongue gives it just the moisture it needs to revive from its near-death trauma? Why it could give a little leap then and there in a bid for freedom. Or it could get hungry itself and decide to nibble at your tonsils. I must say you're certainly jumping in at the deep end with your fear, aren't you?Marcus Kehoe said:I have a fear of fish, not sharks fish. I personally love eating the little bastard's but I can not touch one for the life of me.
On topic: I used to be deeply cynophobic (afraid of dogs) for my tweens and early teens. I got over it but still am not a great fan of dogs, largely due to having a mild fur allergy.
Kinda, unless you have been hurt by rejection and do not want to experience it again, which would make sense.Torbjoern Bakke said:I'm not shy, and I'd say I have a decent self-confidence, but I'm still terrified of rejection.. Does that sound contradictory?
I also have a crippling fear of open bodies of water. A fear that I thought I was making good progress on, until I saw that photo.Chapper said:Same here, but not as much seaweed as the other unknown horrors that dwell in the sea.Desert Punk said:OT: My irrational fear is of deep/dark water, not knowing what is under me, there may be seaweed or something I will get tangled up in and drown ~.~
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What else could be down there? It genuinely terrifies me.
Yay, me too! High Five!lRookiel said:I have an irrational fear of rejection, which contributes to my shyness an awful lot.
I have fears of all of those--though not to phobia levels. They are all tangential to my core phobiaMossberg Shotty said:I also have a crippling fear of open bodies of water. A fear that I thought I was making good progress on, until I saw that photo.Chapper said:Same here, but not as much seaweed as the other unknown horrors that dwell in the sea.Desert Punk said:OT: My irrational fear is of deep/dark water, not knowing what is under me, there may be seaweed or something I will get tangled up in and drown ~.~
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What else could be down there? It genuinely terrifies me.
My God... how does such an abomination come to be?
I have social phobia/social anxiety as well. While I was always wary and tended to avoid people the social anxiety seemed to develop about last year or so. It's gotten to the point where I am too scared to give money to a cashier and either give a friend or family member my money to pay for me or use self-checkout. Only place I do feel comfortable though is GameStop since I have know the staff there for over two years.DanielBrown said:Got social phobia, which I developed after some combined events when I was 16 years old(six years ago).
Had recently taken a sabbathical from school and broken up with the vast majority of my friends, so I spent most time inside. Once when I was out with some remaining friends I got assaulted by some drug addict because I apparently was a satanist and had to be converted. Luckily some Securitas guards were nearby and took him in custody. Really glad they did since they found a knife on him which I'm sure he was ready to use.
Didn't think much of it afterwards(I pressed charges though) and continued my days as a shut-in. When the trial begun everything was different. People were constantly staring and judging me and I was close to throwing up when I made my statement. After that I begun to be afraid even in my own room. I was convinced people could see right in and never left the house. My daily schedual for a year was pretty much just waking up, playing games, go to bed.
It's a lot better these days due to therapy and drugs, but it still hinders me greatly from having a normal life.
What's worse is that before this I was a complete attention whore with tons of self-confidence. It's a weird feeling because I still love being noticed in crowds... and at the same time it scares the shit out of me.
So yeah. A nacissist with social phobia.