It's Japan.. that's just the way anime is and I'm fine with it... Most American cartoons are usually(with some exceptions) cheaply made, badly designed and feature stand alone episodes that resolve things by episodes end (normally) where as anime is ( with some exceptions as well) well made, produced, scripted and feature multi-episode story arcs.Fights are slow? yeah, they are, but most anime is based on manga which has to keep readers coming back week after week to find out what happens and long fights are usually the way they do it in most manga...as for relationships.
Japanese society is very different when it comes to love and relationships and it's shown in anime/manga because we write from life.. Japanese Guys are conservative and don't usually show a lot of public displays of affection. Even in private however, most are just as reserved about showing affection cause it's how they were raised. Japanese women would love to have more affection, and have their boyfriend/husbands be more like other countries when it came to love( which is why more and more Japanese girls are going out with and marrying men from the US) because we're more romantic and more open to showing our love for them unlike Japanese men...
Basically, it's just a lot of differences that make what;s shown in anime/manga so much different then in american cartoons/comics and it's been that way for over 100 years and not going to change any time soon.. if you don't like it, don't watch/read it.. I'm still going to enjoy Bleach, Naruto Shippuden, Fullmetal Alchemist, Cowboy Bebop, School Rumble, Durarara and other anime/manga just fine though.
Japanese society is very different when it comes to love and relationships and it's shown in anime/manga because we write from life.. Japanese Guys are conservative and don't usually show a lot of public displays of affection. Even in private however, most are just as reserved about showing affection cause it's how they were raised. Japanese women would love to have more affection, and have their boyfriend/husbands be more like other countries when it came to love( which is why more and more Japanese girls are going out with and marrying men from the US) because we're more romantic and more open to showing our love for them unlike Japanese men...
Basically, it's just a lot of differences that make what;s shown in anime/manga so much different then in american cartoons/comics and it's been that way for over 100 years and not going to change any time soon.. if you don't like it, don't watch/read it.. I'm still going to enjoy Bleach, Naruto Shippuden, Fullmetal Alchemist, Cowboy Bebop, School Rumble, Durarara and other anime/manga just fine though.