It depends entirely on actions and words. Thoughts make no-one, for either side of the morality spectrum (More like 98 dimensional shape-diagram thing, but anyway). There are times we all genuinely want to hrt someone because of something, times we all feel tempted, and it is ignoring things like this simply because we see it as wrong (ie: not just out of cowardice), that makes you a functional human being.
Conscious, controllable action is more important than subconscious, uncontrollable thought.
Conscious, controllable action is more important than subconscious, uncontrollable thought.