As a 30M, I stand at a meager 5'2".
Most of the time, I keep myself busy with work, grad school, and other activities. In fact, when I am "in the zone" in these activities, height is a none-factor, and I do not let it define who I am. I don't build my personality entirely around it. Most of the time, I am very happy with where I'm at right now.
If you know me in real life, you would find me great to hang out with. A bit quiet, but I know my way around a few jokes and am willing to go for a drink or two with you. In those moments, I focus on enjoying the moment and don't even think about my height.
Now I say most of the time, because there are two situations when my height starts to eat me away.
The first is when things quiet down and I am by myself. As much as I keep myself busy, as with any human being there are down times when I need to slow down and relax. Times like this is when I'm reminded of how short I am, and I'm starting to hate my circumstances. I start thinking about how tall people only seem to find success in life, while short people only stay in mediocre life.
The second is whenever dating is involved. I have no long-term/serious dating experience. I think I was in 3 semi-serious relationships in total, all of which ended before things got anywhere When I ask a girl out, they either flat out say no, or do go out with me for a few dates and then friendzone me. I could treat them like princesses, be a real gentleman, or be a witty funny guy, but no girls seem to stay in long-term relationship with me, because my height is such a turn off.
So it's this constant mood swing between feeling great about myself and then feeling sorry about myself. I wondering if it's possible for me to get over my height completely, without ever feeling anxious and sorry about myself again.
Most of the time, I keep myself busy with work, grad school, and other activities. In fact, when I am "in the zone" in these activities, height is a none-factor, and I do not let it define who I am. I don't build my personality entirely around it. Most of the time, I am very happy with where I'm at right now.
If you know me in real life, you would find me great to hang out with. A bit quiet, but I know my way around a few jokes and am willing to go for a drink or two with you. In those moments, I focus on enjoying the moment and don't even think about my height.
Now I say most of the time, because there are two situations when my height starts to eat me away.
The first is when things quiet down and I am by myself. As much as I keep myself busy, as with any human being there are down times when I need to slow down and relax. Times like this is when I'm reminded of how short I am, and I'm starting to hate my circumstances. I start thinking about how tall people only seem to find success in life, while short people only stay in mediocre life.
The second is whenever dating is involved. I have no long-term/serious dating experience. I think I was in 3 semi-serious relationships in total, all of which ended before things got anywhere When I ask a girl out, they either flat out say no, or do go out with me for a few dates and then friendzone me. I could treat them like princesses, be a real gentleman, or be a witty funny guy, but no girls seem to stay in long-term relationship with me, because my height is such a turn off.
So it's this constant mood swing between feeling great about myself and then feeling sorry about myself. I wondering if it's possible for me to get over my height completely, without ever feeling anxious and sorry about myself again.