Is it weird/predatory for an 18 year old to date a 21 year old?

[MrCalavera_v1legacy]

3 years of difference is nothing, if we're talking about adult people.

 

[Samos205]

Age of consent here in NZ is 16, but you'll only get the book thrown at you if you're like 25 and you sleep with a 13 year old. My former flatmate slept with a 15 year old when he was 30, and most people's reaction's around here were "that's pretty messed up" in a frowny way, not in a moralising way like sex offender christian politicians.

Wait, what? I thought it was 18 here? are you sure its 16?

it's 16 in both Australia and NZ. :3

Shows how much i know about my own country. I just assumed it was 18, since that was the alcohol age and i just assumed that was the consent age too.