Is it worth it?

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mokes310

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ghost02 said:
Based on other topics, sex seems over-rated.
Then they aren't doing it right! In all honesty, don't rush yourself. There is nothing wrong with just being friends with a few ladies your age. Your interests will develop over time and one day, you'll be ready.
 

I_LIKE_CAKE

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Women are what make life worth living. Seriously, don't look at it as trying to find a girlfriend, or potential wife, that takes all the fun out of it. So yes, definitely worth it.
 

arcainia

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Cpt_Oblivious said:
arcainia said:
Cpt_Oblivious said:
arcainia said:
Also, we're talking right now. Am I scary?
Incredibly scary
I'm hurt. >:
But this is via the interwebs! If I met you in the real world I'm sure you'd be much less scary.

And I'm not saying you're not a nice person, just that I'm easily intimidated via internet.
I...uh...well, ok.

...maybe if I used a pink font or something it would be less intimidating...
 

Sennz0r

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Wasder said:
Sennz0r said:
Simriel said:
SmoothOperator said:
Well, it's not all about sex you know... Holding a girls hand, looking into her eyes, loving her, her loving you, kissing... I'd say yes, it's worth it.
Also what this guy said
I third this. A relationship is not just about sex, nor is having interest in the opposite sex solely because of sex.
If you're up for all the romantic stuff: Sure it's worth the trouble. If not: I suggest finding other means of releasing sexual tension than a relationship.
I fourth this. Are you telling him to like, jack off or something? Other than hookers it's the only other meaning I can get out of that.
I wouldn't put it that bluntly. But yeah it's either that or pay for sex or get a sex buddy. Though the last suggestion is thin ice.
 

Cpt_Oblivious

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arcainia said:
Cpt_Oblivious said:
arcainia said:
Cpt_Oblivious said:
arcainia said:
Also, we're talking right now. Am I scary?
Incredibly scary
I'm hurt. >:
But this is via the interwebs! If I met you in the real world I'm sure you'd be much less scary.

And I'm not saying you're not a nice person, just that I'm easily intimidated via internet.
I...uh...well, ok.

...maybe if I used a pink font or something it would be less intimidating...
It's worth a try. But I'm ready to believe your not scary.
 

wewontdie11

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Wow this is a pretty depressing topic for discussion.

Sex? Overrated? You best be kidding. It's not overrated at all when you're with the right person. It's much better when you're not having sex for sex's sake.

Plus the fairer sex make just as good friends as your same gender, better half the time. Contrary to popular belief you don't have to try and shag anything with breasts.
 

bmf185

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Maybe being friends with girls would be better for you, as this would get you over any anxiety that you may have about them later. As far as devoting time and energy to the pursuit of more-than-friends, I would say no. You're 15 and go to an all-boys school. Get some work done and do what you like to do now, because later it might consume your life.
 

Simriel

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Sennz0r said:
Simriel said:
SmoothOperator said:
Well, it's not all about sex you know... Holding a girls hand, looking into her eyes, loving her, her loving you, kissing... I'd say yes, it's worth it.
Also what this guy said
I third this. A relationship is not just about sex, nor is having interest in the opposite sex solely because of sex.
If you're up for all the romantic stuff: Sure it's worth the trouble. If not: I suggest finding other means of releasing sexual tension than a relationship.
Romance is worth it. Besides, knowing someone is thinking about you, when you are thinking about them is an awesome feeling.
 

AndyFromMonday

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SmoothOperator said:
Well, it's not all about sex you know... Holding a girls hand, looking into her eyes, loving her, her loving you, kissing... I'd say yes, it's worth it.
Close your eyes and think of the one girl you always liked, doing what he says. You'll see that's it worth it, all the way. It's not all about sex has Smooth0perator said. It's way, way more than that.
 

Kiutu

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You don't HAVE to bother trying to be with someone of the opposite sex. There is such a thing as homosexuals. Ofcourse, sex should not be the ultimate goal, a partner to spend your life with is, atleast to me. I am one of those world-hating people, but the world seems not as bad when you are with someone you love and care for and who loves and cares for you back. I figure, I want someone to be old with, and since I don't really want to have sex while I am too old, I still want that loving person with me.
 

ghost02

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OK. I am going to work up the courage to try and communicate. I hope it really is worth it...
 

cuddly_tomato

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ghost02 said:
I know this may sound strange, but is it worth the trouble for me, a 15 year old, to have any interest in the opposite sex? Based on other topics, sex seems over-rated. The clincher is that I go to an all boys school so finding a female that I like and that likes me is very difficult. So to all you guys and gals, is it really worth the effort to even have contact with the opposite sex?
Oh god yes it is. Not just sex, but the whole flirting and chasing thing is immense fun and helps build the confidence you will need as you get older.
 

Rolling Thunder

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You don't want to end up a whiny little berk sitting behind a computer?

Get the fuck out there!

You don't want psychosis?

Get the fuck out there!



I have gone the past 6 months without meeting a female for more than a few hours.....aside from familiy members. And it's not good for your mental help.

PS. I'm worried about Max.
 

Evilbunny

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ghost02 said:
Based on other topics, sex seems over-rated.
I don't know who told you this, but they lied to you. Sex is the best thing God has ever invented in my book. I regret now not having sex until college and wish I could be 15 again so I could try to nail some 15 year old ass. I say it's worth it.
 

cuddly_tomato

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Fondant said:
You don't want to end up a whiny little berk sitting behind a computer?

Get the fuck out there!

You don't want psychosis?

Get the fuck out there!



I have gone the past 6 months without meeting a female for more than a few hours.....aside from familiy members. And it's not good for your mental help.

PS. I'm worried about Max.
Dude! Do you live in NW England? We could meet up, hit a few pubs, get you some time out?
 

P1p3s

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i've never found anything more fullfilling than intamcy with the opposite sex, I don't mean just physical intimacy, but being with someone who does understand you, or at least someone you feel comfortable enough to show them your 'crazy' and having something love you inspite or (even better) BECAUSE of all that stuff you wouldn't dare just blurt out is phenominal