Is there any REASON gay marriage is wrong?

Nimzar

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JustusCross said:
I agree with the person above, the term marriage is indicative of a definition, a definition set out before people were even gay.
I'm positive homosexuality existed before the word marriage.
 

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Yes, there is a reason that gay marriage is wrong.

Because marriage is a religiously motivated event, and as such is dictated by the cult in question.

So either make your own cult and have a marriage through it, or find a cult that allows it already.

Or, get a civil union(or something of like nature) and get 'married' through the state. Outside of whatever religious reasons you may have, I'm not sure why you'd want a marriage in the first place.
 

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Because I'm an aging Caucasian and it creeps me out which means EVERYONE must suffer for my bigotry.
 

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DragonLord Seth said:
It's against nature and through that, God.
1. It occurs in many species of animal all throughout nature
2. If God is against it, why did he ever create the concept in the first place?
 

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JustusCross said:
I agree with the person above, the term marriage is indicative of a definition, a definition set out before people were even gay. The union of man and women, not man and man or woman and woman. Though I suppose i'm not against the civil union of gays, I don't think you can call it marriage. It's not that i think gay people are inferior, we found out my cousins gay a year or two ago and we still treat him the same. But the definition set out would not imply that when gays have a union that it is marriage.
You didn't read the news then that they found relative proof of homo- or transsexuality in ancient people then?
Also: It's not that I think negroes are inferior, we found out my cousin has negro blood a year or two ago and we still treat him the same.
Basically you can put any label there in what you said instead of "gay", but what it reads like is bigotry.
It's not that I think JustusCross is inferior... etc. See what I mean?
 

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thedoclc said:
Your definition of fertilization is categorically wrong. I recommend a dictionary at this point before attempting your argument.

You were hardly misunderstood; you were refuted.
Now I am confused, are we talking about word choice precision more than whether or not the act of copulation can produce offspring? I still don't think you're getting the point, but that happens with a lot of people I talk to. Word choice again, maybe?

You seem more concerned with playing grammar nazi than discussing biological processes, but having thought about it, the urge people get to stick parts of themselves in things or have things stuck into them is largely controlled by hormones and such, yes? Chemicals in the brain, I'm told. I'm no expert on the human body, but that impulse would be considered biologically natural, wouldn't it? In the thought it is only natural to make use of the opposite gender's parts, I was apparently mistaken.

Isn't saying "no, I understand what was said and am right in my assumption" the same as not thinking about it, just assuming you have the whole picture like so many self-righteous bible-thumpers that have seldom opened the book? Perhaps I'm not looking at that one correctly.

This is an interesting, if slightly unfocused discussion, but I'm out of time for tonight and must leave you with whichever assumption you've deemed most grammatically valid.
Grammar nazi? No, I'm pointing out you do not know basic biology, yet are attempting a fallacious appeal to inherent nature. Rather than learn, say, what that is, or actually find out that fertilization is nothing more than successful merger of sperm and an ovum, you throw out "oh noes, grammar nazis!" and try the boring, old "You're a science fundie!" insult. No. I never fixed your grammar; I'm undermining your argument by showing you do not understand the field you are attempting to appeal to.

In this case, your argument about "correctness" was refuted by showing that sexual activity in many species - and especially humans - was not only reproductive in purpose. In addition, homosexual behavior has an extremely strong genetic component. Both of these points were already raised. Your point was understood and rejected. That's all.
 

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My two reasons for being against it are as follows.
1. allowing gays to marry gives them the right to adopt children, something I think is wrong. If they want to do it themselves, I don't like it but I can't stop it. I think it's just wrong to allow them to screw up a childs life and steer them towards the same future just because you want to be more like a natural couple when you're not.

2. As a christian it is wrong. The bible says in multiple places that men who give into lust for each other deserve the same fate as men who give into lust for a woman, and that no homosexuals will inherit the kingdom of god.
 

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ReservoirAngel said:
..."why did he ever create the concept in the first place?"
Hehe ^_^

Nimzar said:
JustusCross said:
I'm positive homosexuality existed before the word marriage.
That's probably because you're right.

spacecowboy86 said:
As a christian it is wrong. The bible says in multiple places that men who give into lust for each other deserve the same fate as men who give into lust for a woman, and that no homosexuals will inherit the kingdom of god.
Why do you assume it's a marriage through your cult?
 

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Because the Bible said so. Well, actually, it doesn't, but you know those bloody Americans :p
 

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PowerC said:
agreed, so you can admit that even if it is a sin (which I don't believe it is) can be forgiven by god, being gay could be stealing a pencil for all it means in the face of eternity
Yes, absolutely, there is no sin that cannot be forgiven by God.
meryatathagres said:
Theologically speaking, you don't have to be sorry or repent. You just have to accept Jesus Christ into your heart. Ofcource many a church has made their own interpretations from that very ambigious line. But Jesus says in all versions of bible, that whoever believes in him shall be saved. Jehovah's witnesses say that it should read "whoever obeys", still sinfulness isn't an issue since we're all covered with filthy sin from Adam's original sin. (For a loving god he sure carries a grudge. :p )

My more important point, which the tldr crowd will miss ofc, is that there is no hell in christianity. There is deletion from the book of life, there is oblivion, there is not being with God. But there is NO ETERNAL TORMENT or HELL. There is the finity of life instead of immortality, and thats basically it unless you wanna go false prophetizing. (which btw carries a rather harsh penalty in xtianity)

ps. Why don't the institutions that are so adamant on defending their own semantics of a common multicultural word like marriage instead add their own hyperlative in front of the word? Oh wait they have already...it's called "holy matrimony"..
I would have to respectfully disagree with you on a point, I would believe that you need repentance to go to heaven (But this isn't the place to debate this, so nevermind,) and I also believe in Hell, and then eternal punishment in the Lake of Fire(from Revelation 20), however I just looked up the passage about it, and it struck me that it calls it a "second death" all my sleep deprived brain can think of is that could very well mean the death of a soul, but I have to wait until tomorrow to look into that, I must go to bed. Thanks [sub]it's 3.30 why am I still up?[/sub]
 

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No, there is no problem.

The whole religious thing started 2,000 years ago when people pointed out that making young men have sex with their teachers (masters) before they could learn anything from them wasn't right.

They "acted" immoral.

Today, since that is not the case, I see way too much good to come of it; Especially when its 2 guys.

Not only can they not have kids and not make the world's over population a bigger issue, when they want families, they adopt! Giving otherwise orphans a chance in this world! There's scripture that basically states that when you accept children into your life you accept Christ or something like that!

Gay marriage for the win!
 

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Depends if you want to be married in a faith, some denominations of Christianity are upset about it, as are those of other faiths, particularly the precursor to and major religion based off Christianity , Judaism and Islam, which tend to have less denominations and less leniency in regards to scripture interpretation / importance. So it would be "doing it wrong" to marry two men or two women in those faiths. It's up to you the individual to assess if it's morally wrong, ethically it's quite neutral.

Oh also if the question was "What game was the Konami code first used in?" and you gave the answer "Gay marriage". That would be wrong because it's untrue. Unless your a die-hard theoretical physicist and argue it could be.
 

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spacecowboy86 said:
2. As a christian it is wrong. The bible says in multiple places that men who give into lust for each other deserve the same fate as men who give into lust for a woman, and that no homosexuals will inherit the kingdom of god.
Alright, so no Christian homosexuals. What about all the people in the world who don't follow Christianity?
 

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None that isn't religiously based. I've never heard of a secular reason for why homosexuals should not be allowed to marry.
 

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spacecowboy86 said:
My two reasons for being against it are as follows.
1. allowing gays to marry gives them the right to adopt children, something I think is wrong. If they want to do it themselves, I don't like it but I can't stop it. I think it's just wrong to allow them to screw up a childs life and steer them towards the same future just because you want to be more like a natural couple when you're not.
I can't in good conscience argue your second point. You can believe whatever you want from whatever religion, I'd be an idiot for bitching you out for that. I personally believe in the Spirit of Nature (kind of a semi-druid concept) and in the idea of parallel universes, so I'm not fit to judge anyone for their beliefs since mine are coo-coo for Coco Puffs.

This point about adoption though...I think, to my memory, there have been no studies done that produce ANY evidence whatsoever that children raised by same-sex couples suffer any mental issues or mental damage as a result of that. Sure if the couple downright abuse the kid that's gonna cause problems, but straight people are capable of child abuse too, so that doesn't prove anything either way.

The only real 'problem' with a child being raised by same-sex parents is the bullying issue. But frankly the most obvious way to remove that problem is to teach tolerance to kids and get them used to the idea that some kinds have "two mommies" or "two daddies" and that it's not a big deal.

I often find the same people who complain about "these same-sex couples' kids will be bullied because of their parents orientation" are the exact same people who vigorously oppose the teaching of sexual tolerance in schools because "it'll turn kids gay" so they're really shooting themselves in the foot with a bazooka. They're causing the problem they complain about, while simultaneously using that to insult gay people. It's just a mish-mash of idiocy.

Sorry I appear to have turned my reply into a slander against conservatives...I do apologise.