Have you ever been in a situation where you were close to someone and then they decide they would rather be with someone else? If so, how would you deal with that? Quite frankly it just pisses me off.
"Its not you, its me."
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Personally I'd go on the offensive with
"Yes, it was you. I don't know how I stuck with you for so long."
"Yes, it was you. I don't know how I stuck with you for so long."
Sounds more like, "it's not you, it's this other person."
I live and let live, forgive and forget. Usually when stuff happens like that it just wasn't meant to be. I was recently broken up with a girl that I really liked. Now just getting over it and moving on.
I live and let live, forgive and forget. Usually when stuff happens like that it just wasn't meant to be. I was recently broken up with a girl that I really liked. Now just getting over it and moving on.
Kill them, if i can't be with her nobody will!!!
Actually I just deal with it and move on, I'm old enough to realize that it will be ok later on, and there are lots of others out there.
Actually I just deal with it and move on, I'm old enough to realize that it will be ok later on, and there are lots of others out there.
"It's not you, it's me" always = "it's you"
As far as being rejected goes, what can you do? You can act rashly and immediately try and find someone else, drink too much or abuse your body in other ways, lash out at the world and make things worse...
It sucks. Best thing you can do is "try" and pick up the pieces and move on. I know how hard that is, but it's really the only thing you can do. Hopefully you've got friends and/or family to help you through it. I would suggest that you avoid friendship with the rejector unless you really think you can handle that; it's really difficult and in my experience just prolongs the misery.
As far as being rejected goes, what can you do? You can act rashly and immediately try and find someone else, drink too much or abuse your body in other ways, lash out at the world and make things worse...
It sucks. Best thing you can do is "try" and pick up the pieces and move on. I know how hard that is, but it's really the only thing you can do. Hopefully you've got friends and/or family to help you through it. I would suggest that you avoid friendship with the rejector unless you really think you can handle that; it's really difficult and in my experience just prolongs the misery.
I usually get pissed off if they don't give a good enough reason. Being the needy emotional wreck i am of course. Seriously though, if you're cutting off ties with someone, you have to be honest, doing the bullshit protecting their emotions thing doesn't work AT ALL.
I've used "It's not me, it's you" before and it felt good... but I've never had to face it the other way around. That would suck, though.
I deal with it like I deal with all of life's kicks to the bollocks. A bottle of whiskey and singing along drunkenly (and at the top of my lungs) to irish folk songs at 3am.
It sucks, but rejection really is something you're gonna have to take with dignity. Don't get pissed off. Walk proud. It's their loss. Don't get pissed off. You'll meet and lose so many people on the road.
Look at it like this: there's ultimately only one person you'll stay together with. Just the one. You're gonna see a lot of people walking away from you. C'est la vie, guy.
I wish you the best of luck.
Look at it like this: there's ultimately only one person you'll stay together with. Just the one. You're gonna see a lot of people walking away from you. C'est la vie, guy.
I wish you the best of luck.
Yeah.
But she was a jerk about it...
"Oh kevin, you nice and all, but Shaq is a lot more...
"Skillful? Helpful?"
"Sexual."
"Oh. T.T"
But she was a jerk about it...
"Oh kevin, you nice and all, but Shaq is a lot more...
"Skillful? Helpful?"
"Sexual."
"Oh. T.T"
My fellow Docter, it's not like we KNEW about the other feelings. it's just we have this vison on how we wanted it to worked out...Doctor VonSexMachine said:
...and Realism pops up and said, "Sorry, but that's too hopeful."
i prefer to get dumped than strung along. If said person no longer has feelings for me, I would much rather have them tell me, even if they don't have feelings for me because they have feelings for someone else.
i was in the process of being told. my response:
"ah well" and walked off before she could even say "...it's me". we are still friends but it is understood that i was the bigger person. social superiority FTW
"ah well" and walked off before she could even say "...it's me". we are still friends but it is understood that i was the bigger person. social superiority FTW
I've been dumped like that and after the initial heart break, I realize it's for the best. No use pretending.Dr. wonderful said: