Pretty much this, but as a fem gamer when I play a male lead if I'm asked like in ME to be him I assume the mantle of him. My father treated me more like a boy anyway so I'm pretty good at playing the, " If I was a guy" game. So I just do that. My male lead doesn't become a she because I'm playing as him I step into his shoes, his mind, and try to navigate the world as him when questioned by the npcs. If I'm however alone and just killing things, scavenging, or exploring I'm free to do as I please I don't however think I'm not him its just I'm fallowing him about while doing these things or a better way of putting it is during his free roam nonquestion sections if its a 3Dp he has a camera fallowing him either like a flying bug or its in his helmet (for fp types) and I see what he sees at no time does he become she. Other times when I'm about scavenging, exploring, killing I'm him completely I'll find myself going, " What's this?", " Can I make that leap?" there is no difference between he and I when I'm playing we sync up rather well because of who he is and his personality these heros are the type I prefer to play as.Lilani said:As a female, I've got to say...not really. This isn't how it works at all. I don't know what it feels like to "be" a man, but I still felt like Gordon Freeman playing HL2 and I was perfectly fine with everyone else calling me a male, and with Alyx hitting on me every now and then. And when I was playing the Walking Dead I didn't feel like a female Lee, I felt like Lee. I made my decisions based on my perceptions of his character. I wanted him to fall in love with Carly, and I encouraged him to be fatherly to Clementine. As I saw his relationship with Clementine develop, it felt like a father-daughter relationship, not a mother-daughter. And I loved that--I just loved the honesty and tenderness there. It reminded me of my dad in many ways.Goliath100 said:Edit: What I'm saying is that if Half-Life 2 is played by someone identifying as female, Gordon Freeman is female in that case. If played by someone idenifying as male, Gordon is male.
To say it's impossible for a player to play as the opposite gender without "imagining" they're the same gender is like saying a person can't watch a movie or read a book about a character of the opposite gender without mentally changing them to be the same. That just isn't how it works at all. Perhaps if the character is nameless and there's no narrative like Minecraft or something, but if the character has a name and if they're an active participant in the narrative then that defines them. All throughout Bioshock I was aware I was playing a man, and I felt no need to change that. I was too busy exploring the narrative and seeing where the characters and story were going to go. It's just the same as the way I got through Harry Potter just fine without turning him into Harriet Potter in my mind. It's the same principle, really.
There are however points of disassociation when Geralt is sleeping with Triss it's a check out moment and then its a movie but for the most part I'm usually engaged in what my male lead is doing even if he's fp. If my male hero is getting hit on by a woman I don't like personality wise I'll ignore her or look for the option to turn her down. But if she likes my male lead and I think she's a nice girl I'll be happy for my male lead and as the woman above said encourage him to be with her. I loved when Tali wanted Mshep and was super happy when he was able to return her advances for instance. When they would meet up or share a moment together I was happy for them and thought he was a lucky guy not me being a lucky girl it was his moment with her and he would be lucky because of it for himself.
When I'm a fem lead I find my thoughts are less constricted when I think of things it's like she's thinking these things I no longer have to play the " if I was a guy" mental game I can now just be in the world and experience it without an added layer.
However a male can play a fem lead in much the same way by playing the, " If I was a girl," game or just mentally accompanying her, rooting for her, wanting to help her succeed in her quest, or if he can actually place himself in her shoes. At no point would the fem lead become he, he would be aware of the fact its a she and he would either choose to fallow her or choose to mentally become her.