I gave my dad (a non-gamer) my original Xbox when my grandmother passed away. He’d spent the previous 2 years caring for her, in and out of hospitals and dialysis on a nigh weekly basis. When she died, she left a gap in his routine, so I figured he might trying gaming to occupy his depressing free time. He’s a huge WWII nut, so of course, I got him every war game I could find, and he actually took to them, my mom noting to me that he seemed to be enjoying himself for the first time in a very long time. Also got him a Tiger Woods game, and the whole family (two older sisters and a niece, all non-gamers) got in on it; I’d visit and we’d golf for hours together. Then it was Burnout, or as my mom called it, “crashing;” I’d call to check in and she’d say “me and your dad are in here ‘crashing.’” That Xbox actually meant a lot to me as it brought my family together unexpectedly during a very tough time. I was sad when it finally up and died, but my parents had already bought themselves a Wii by then; my mom loved to watch my dad mimic the ski jump in their living room.
But on a bitter note, during my divorce 12 years ago, I gave my ex everything “we” owned just to get the deed over with as quickly and smoothly as possible; we didn’t have much, and trying to play halvesies with a turbo b*tch and the contents of a one-bedroom apartment would have been a waste of life. Well, a part of “everything” was a storage unit that contained my NES, Sega Genesis, Nintendo 64 and a shit-ton of games. Not too mad, but I really would have preferred to have kept them. Even thought about asking her for them early after the divorce, but 1) I doubted she still had them and 2) the idea of expecting any civility from the most toxic human being to ever curse the planet with her existence wasn’t worth it. There are still times when I really want to fire up one of those old systems, and I can’t help but think “I still hate that b*tch.”